my boyfriend and i have been 2gether 2 1/2 yrs i cannot go anywhere without him thinking im cheating on him.we argue constantly and he is very rude to me and he never tries to work anything out he just says it is always my fault.now this new guy started talking to me and he treats me great should i try and pursue something with him and finally end it with my boyfriend???? im soo confused
2006-10-24 13:03:13 · 21 answers · asked by jules 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your boyfriend is always finding fault with you and is rude to you and never tries to work things out, I think it's time you said goodbye. If he doesn't trust you after beng together 2-1/2 years, how long is it going to take? You don't need or deserve his disrespect.
Since this new guy seems interested in you, go for it.
2006-10-24 13:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste anymore of your time. He is insecure, selfish, and he doesnt really love you-if he truly did, he wouldnt treat you that way. I have been there with a guy a lot like your b/f, and I wasted nearly 4 years of my life! I will never get those 4 years back! I was unhappy, stressed out, always accused of things I didn't do, felt sick everyday, became distant from friends/family, and he basically changed who I was.
The best piece of advice I can give is to tell you to not give anymore of your precious life away to someone who is so very obviously not "The One" for you.
Things will NEVER change even if you think they will in your heart. He is who he is and nothing can change that-not even you. I also promise you that in time things will get worse...not better.
You deserve to be in a happy healthy relationship. I was scared that I would not find another man (he made me feel that way) but I met many other wonderful men who made me see that assholes are not worth my time. I am now in a very happy relationship with the man of my dreams (they are out there girl) who may have passed me by if I had stayed in that unhealthy relationship!
You know what you have to do-so go out there and make the right choice!
2006-10-24 13:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Marissa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think that this one won't argue either, you don't know sometimes until you've given it time. If this new guy is coming in on this situation it will cause more tension with you and your boyfriend. It's hard to say whether or not you should break up with him. You may get worse in the next relationship. Trust is learned.
2006-10-24 13:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you've an outstanding relationship without believe??? you are able to't. If he cheated in the start both get over that or get over him. you do not opt to be in this relationship for 12 years feeling this way and then locate out that your suspicions were accurate [he's devious], then it would want to be extra sturdy to get over him. As for now enable the previous stay in the previous and if he's doing something incorrect this is going to arise. human beings continually tell on themselves by technique of doing something dumb. I heard [or examine] this declaring someplace it suggested: a guy isn't smart sufficient now to not cheat yet he's smart enought to locate a woman who will take care of. it. in case you believe that he's doing airborne dirt and mud, then end the relationship. because there is no relationship without believe and also you've were given believe subject matters. in my opinion, you sound like a fragile woman no older than 25 if that. because it is a difficulty that i does no longer take care of as a 27 year old woman.
2016-12-05 04:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend is being rude to you then definitly. He's not worth keeping around. THe girl in a relationship should be the center of attention and treated like a princess
Good Luck!
2006-10-24 13:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by cada-dia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like ur bf then keep trying 2 work it out and if u think it is really worth working it out then stay with him. Now if the other boy is better then your bf then the hell with your bf.
Me and my bf had a very bad stage in our relationship but it is sssssssssooooooooooo much better now.
2006-10-24 13:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should end it with your boyfriend and figure out why he doesn't trust you. there is a saying that those who lie, think everybody lies. so either he has done something unfaithful to you and therefore thinks you have as well or you have done something. once and if you come to the conclusion that it is not your fault that he doesn't trust you then definitely pursue something with the other guy
2006-10-24 13:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jules, you are wacky with a capital W.
Answer honestly: are you cheating on him? Do you give him those signals? Do you flirt with other guys?
If you're honest and you answer no, then you should break up. Otherwise, you should still probably break up, but don't be a bad girl. No one wants to marry a bad girl.
2006-10-24 13:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by WJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your boyfriend loves you so much that he doesn't want to lose you. tell him how he treating you and try to work things out. if things get worse break up with him and go out with the other guy or if you just cant take it anymore dumb him.
2006-10-24 13:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump the current boyfriend because honestly, he doesnt sound very nice. Go for the new guy! =]
2006-10-24 13:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by DestinationUNKNOWN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋