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I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.
My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 17 & 15 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 3 & 5 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.
I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and even kiss me, when going out.When I married they were 9 & 11 and from then they have been kissing me Is it okay for them to kiss me in a father daughter way and calling me dad?
2006-10-24 12:56:29 · 19 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes I think its wonderful that they feel comfortable and love you enough to do that. A wonderful man is a man that treats your children as their own! You sir are a wonderful man
2006-10-24 13:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the only person that it has to be okay with is you. This is your family, you made the decision to accept your wife's sisters into your home and raise them it is up to you how you handle the relationship with them. I agree with your wife that you are great for being there for them. You sound like a good husband and father and if you consider your sister in laws to be like your daughters and are comfortable raising and treating them that way I don't see where it hurts anyone as long as you are all comfortable and happy with the situation and as long as you and your wife are always honest about the way things are.
2006-10-24 20:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Laney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly okay in a FATHERLY way! Not many men would step up like you, you should be proud and the girls should show you the respect and love as a father. Oh by the way don't worry what others think people always think the worst of people you know your good and so do they and that is all that matter a happy healthy family life
2006-10-24 20:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by just wondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have practically raised those girls. I could understand the close relationship they feel for you. Don't make anything out of the way they show you affection. If they've hugged and kissed you all those years, isn't it still ok? If you pull away, they might think you don't love them anymore. Sounds like you know the limits and have no intention of crossing it. So relax and be blessed and happy with your family. Many do not have what you have. HUGS!
2006-10-24 20:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If they are giving you hug, peck on the cheek, and you don't get a tingle in that manly place then you are ok. But if it is sort of turning you on then tell your wife it makes you uncomfortable and have her speak with her sisters.
2006-10-24 20:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by shane o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally.. unless you get your willies from it then you should turn your head for the kiss to land on your cheek or put a stop to it
2006-10-24 20:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea sure thats just there way of sayin love ya dad and as long as ur not doin it in a wierd way then it shouldent be a problem.
2006-10-24 21:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see anything wrong with it cuz if they see u as a dad then thats ok. and if they have been living with u for 6 yrs then its definately ok for them to do that
2006-10-24 20:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as it doesnt go past the father dughter thing i dont see a problem with the kiss on the cheek.
2006-10-24 20:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with that...You are truly a kind and generous individual to care for them like daughters.
2006-10-24 20:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋