I have known this girl for 5 years, and we dated a few times, but i have been in a relationship for 4 years. She is always hinting that she wants to date me if I wasn't in the relationship. Now I am single again, and we went out a few times. We had a great time and Kissed. Now she is saying she is dating another guy. I ask if I should give her space, but she wants to still see me. What should I do. I think i need to tell her how i feel next time I see her, maybe she is uncertain ? HELP !
2006-10-24 12:55:52 · 13 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is possible she is but only she knows for sure.
Consider this: You knew her for a whole year and dated. You then jumped into another relationship....telling her that as far as you are concerned you were just friends.
She is seeing someone else but it is clear she likes you. But just liking you is not a good reason to dump her current boyfriend.
You even gave her an out and she didn't want it.
What you have to decide is how you really feel about her. I mean really. If she dumps her current boyfriend to be with you and you run off again where have you left her.
Tell her how much you care for her not in words but in action. When you are together show her how much you care. Doesn't mean you have to buy her a lot of gifts or take her out to expensive dinners. Take her to a book store or coffee shop and have a nice long talk. Tell her about yourself and where you are going.
The more she knows about you and feels that you love to be with her will tell her all she needs to know.
She won't be so hard to get anymore.
2006-10-24 13:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like she isn't sure what she wants and she may be playing hard to get a woman does that to see how far you will go to win her heart. But then again she may be seeing how you will react if she told you she had another boyfriend. Take it easy and get her alone and tell her that you wanted me and I truly wanted you so there is a need there tell her that. Now that you have me I feel at home and I want to have you in my arms. And, see what she says about that. If she is interested in you she will respond but don't let her fool you or cheat on you be careful. Tell her I am free for you now so if you wanted to date as I wanted to date you should let it be just us that is another to say it. If she feels the same way you will see a change if she isn't interested she won't change at all or a simple answer will be giving. Good Luck Go With Your Heart It Is Never Wrong
2006-10-24 20:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by high_metamorph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want to be with just 1 guy right now, I'm guessing she is younger & wants to play the field a little. May you should ask her why she is seeing other people? Or you can just come out & tell her that if she wants to see you, it's you only and no one else. Hopefully that question will shed light on your situation. Good luck to you!
2006-10-24 20:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've just got to be open with her and tell her exactly how you feel.
Messing around just screws up the mind, and gets in the way of life.
Talk openly, and if she needs help, then offer whatever help you can like suggesting she asks a question on Yahoo answers!!
2006-10-24 20:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't fair to share a gf. If she is just in a friend-type of relationship with you then its ok to see both of you. But.....once she gets romantic with one of you, she needs to not see the other one.
She is either uncertain or she is a player. I know you are very attracted to her, but even if you love her you just might not be able to be with her.
I always say....I can generally date, but the moment I get kissie-face with one guy, then I don't see anyone else.
2006-10-24 20:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing games with you but tell her how you feel maybe it will put her feelings about you in perspective. You two do have somewhat of a history so Im sure something can be built by that.
2006-10-24 20:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by raylenejade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don,t push it. Give her space anyway. She knows what she is doing. Dont fool yourself. Take your time not hers. If it eventually works out GREAT, if not, well nobody has made a fool of themselves and at the least the friendship remains. Keep pushing and you may end up loosing that as well.
2006-10-24 20:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. So the next time you see her, tell her how you feel. She's telling you that she is "dating another guy" but the truth is that she's just testing you if you're really consistent or if you really wanna pursue her. So good luck! :-)
2006-10-24 19:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she will clear her mind if you tell her how you really feel. She's still single, but she wants to try new options if you two don't get to work.
2006-10-24 19:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by mrs. cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds uncertain.
You should tell her - that puts the ball in her court. If she decides she doesn't want to play, then you can both carry on your separate lives.
2006-10-24 19:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋