My boyfriend isnt very romantic! And I wish he was more romantic! I've given him little hints but he doesnt get it! Help I need opinions?
2006-10-24 12:55:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many guys speak a different 'language' then woman in this depatment...
Many men don't realy get the hints that are dropped on them by their woman... one thing you can do, is be more obvious in your hints... slowly bring it to be more and more obvious, it may sound like he's not listening, or paying attention. but it's more likly they don't understant what you want...
if this guy realy cares about you, he'll do it, he just needs to know that you need it...
if even blaringly obvious hints don't work, sit him down one day, and tell him. don't be condicending, don't talk down to him... just say that this is something you miss, and you would like more of it.
he may ask for an example or something, don't just say i dono... make something up that you would enjoy... and if he agree's, expect the first thing he does to be exacly what you told him:) then later, tell him how great it was that he did this, and that you'd love it if he could do something different next time... again, if he asks for an idea, be more vague, but give him something to work with...
what i've described here, is more like training him in what you like, but as long as he loves you, he should be willing to do a little work like this to keep you happy...
2006-10-24 13:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys just dont get the hints or can be misunderstood. So try haveing a talk with him, and let him know how you feel, tell him you think it would be a good idea if you guys had a specific movie night every week, where you two just cuddle up on the couch and watch a couple movies, or going out for dinner or another kind of activity you both would like once a week. Make sure you take both yours and his likes and dislikes into consideration makes for all the better of a time.
2006-10-24 12:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by shortie_49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your idea of romantic? Make a list. Time to stop giving little hints and laying out what you need to feel more valued in the relationship. Then if he can't give it - time to move on little doggie.
2006-10-24 12:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to hold his hand and show him how to treat you
if you want to give him another shot at it
tell him what you would like him to do on a more regular basis
and if he doesn't get the point even after you have a talk with him
Lose Him.
I hope you re taking care of business as well,
and not just looking to get treated like a princess even though you do nothing for him.
2006-10-24 13:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 13:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by rickert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys usually aren't into the cheesy romantic stuff. maybe if u have a date one night, tell him U are planning something. dont go over the top romantic. a candle lit dinner is enough. if he reacts funny, maybe he's not the romantic type and than maybe he's not for u
2006-10-24 12:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by dramateen23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him about it or have a friend talk to him if you need to. good luck. watch a romantic movie and say how nice it was. hints?
2006-10-24 12:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant force some one to be romantic. all you can do is tell him that you would appreciate a little more romance, and nice things.
2006-10-24 12:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys dont understand little hints, they barely understand direct requests...
2006-10-24 13:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Christine C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he comes over to your house next, wair a flirty top and wear VANILLA perfume. vanilla is the sex aroma! that will get things going for ya! ;)
2006-10-24 12:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋