I have anxity and I have been given medication from the doctor about it. But today it feels quite bad. I don't know what i'm feeling if it is anxity or something else. My fiance is out today on a golf tournament for the local pub and I know that he will be drinking and then tonight he is playing poker in a tournament at the same pub but with all his friends. He plays poker every wednesday but today is different because he is out drinking playing golf now. I keep having anxity and worry about everthing and I pray that he won't be late home. I don't know if i'm describing anxity or am i being far to dependent. I don't mind that he does things without me I do things with my friends to. I think its worse at the moment because i'm having a really bad day at work. Does what i' saying sound silly?
2006-10-24 12:55:35 · 5 answers · asked by L F 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
If I am just being to dependent how can I help myself to change?
2006-10-24 13:05:21 · update #1
Gagam, you say in your advise, that his drinking is more than a 'fun' thing. What do you mean?
This is just a fun golf tournament day that he is doing with a few mates it is for fun, he doesn't have a drinking problem.
2006-10-24 13:10:25 · update #2
Beatriz O
you say that my fiance is the source that is incorrect I have had anxity since i was young, he isn't the cause at all. You wonder why i didn't go out aswell is because I have to work and it is a guys day out i didn't want to go if he did ask i'm just worried about what time he will be home.
2006-10-24 13:33:30 · update #3
if your worried all of the time about him your to dependant on him I have anixety attacks too but not like that you could be over protective or jealous or you are just lonely and need someone to talk to
2006-10-24 12:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by weirded out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you're feeling "anxiety", what exactly are you feeling? The word anxiety can mean so many things and can be different for each person.
If you're feeling worried, you need to sit down and figure out what you're worried about. Since he's out for the day and you don't want him to be late, are you worried he might get hurt or drunk and do something stupid?
If you're afraid, you need to sit down and figure out what you're afraid of. Are you afraid of being alone in the house? Are you afraid of him and what he will be like when he gets home after a whole day of drinking - you can love someone and still be afraid of them. If you are, you need to get out.
Medication can help, but the best solution is to talk to someone qualified to help and figure out where this is coming from - the root cause. Until you do that you're going to continue having these kinds of days (and a bad day at work is normal in this world, so you have to find a way to cope).
2006-10-27 12:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are anxious because you know his drinking is more than a "fun" thing. Rightfully so. Anxiety rears it's ugly head when you are stressed and worried about things. It is an ongoing feeling you can't shake. I suffer from anxiety attacks and it is always a scary thing to go through. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
See a doctor if the anxiety continues...
2006-10-24 13:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by gagam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weirded out has a good answer. Maybe ask yourself what bothers you. Write it down Analise what you can do to alleviate this problem.
2006-10-24 13:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does
2006-10-24 13:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Den P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋