We were together for 5 years and when I got pregnant he decided to start cheating then when I moved and left him he blames me when I did nothing wrong I just got me and my kids out of a bad situation.
2006-10-24 12:53:42 · 36 answers · asked by sadie12903 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is an idiot......
2006-10-24 12:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well sadie, some of the answers that you have recieved seem to make some kind of sense, on the other hand some don't have a clue of what the are telling you......when you have been with a man that long, he get's comfortable in the relationship when it is just the two of you..now when you got pregnant, it was time to stray. has he cheated on you before in the relationship??? he blames you because he doesn't want the responsibility of taking of not "one" but "two"...if you were in a bad situation it is good that you got out when you did...a man will never admit it that when he had a good thing when he looses the best thing he mite have ever had..i've been there and done that, and i was just like you, i never did anything wrong i was committed soley to the relationship never cheated, but when they want out of the relationship they will do what ever it takes to get out..and cheating is the thing that they do best......so sadie, just do what you are doing now, and one day you will find a man who will love and your kids for who you are...don't worry about this guy, move on to bigger and better things..like they say "THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER IN THE OTHER PASTURES !!!!!!!! well i've said enough, good luck and consitrate on your kids...take care and i hope i said some things that you can understand...
2006-10-24 13:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by barbara p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are too busy thinking about the sluts that they wanna bang. Iam glad you got out of there and left his good for nothing a$$, you and youre kids deserve better and if he wants to act like the victim as if he didnt do anything let him act like a little pu**y, you know what he did and if he doesnt wanna man up about what he did the let him act like that . In the end hes the only one looking stupid and imature
2006-10-24 13:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by onelove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are idiots. It's nature. I know exclusively because I am a man. There are some men who can think with their brains instead of their little heads. Don't forget that. But what you have is not one of those men. You made the right choice by leaving him. Hope you have a wonderful life. Stay Groovy.
2006-10-24 12:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by jerryjames619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are so stupid (this is a man's answer) is because were simple. We don't think things through, and sex corrupts our minds and if someone gets pregnant, that means less sex, less money, and less time doing whatever the hell we want. I would love have a child, though.
Just know, that not all men are like this.
2006-10-24 12:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree that this man is an idiot... not that all men are like this...
I know that i've been broken up with by idiot girls because of some stupid reason, and then get into a bad situation because they didn't think...
it's people in general, not just men, and not just women...
2006-10-24 12:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women do that too. I don't think that you can blame all men for that problem cause even women cant see what is good when its in front of them. Just remember not all men are the same and don't let their ignorance make your standards go lower than theirs.I also agree with George's answer too.
2006-10-24 12:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by johnknight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll ignore that comment and give you my advice anyway.
Not all men are stupid you know, just the one you've been with is a loser. Tell him that you were just protecting the baby from getting mixed up in a situation that you didn't want the baby involved in.
2006-10-24 13:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 kinds of men, big assholes and little assholes, you did the rigt thing, hes not a good role model for your kid, and its no excuse that men have a smaller brain and think with their cock you will have to look long and hard to find a man that wil respect you and accept you as a package deal. not a guy that has to have his kid with you.
2006-10-24 13:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well al men have a inner dog and some let it out and some don't Well yours did. Don't beat yourself about ti.U should give him one more chance if u really love him! but if u don't then end it don't worry about him there will be other men that will catch your eye!
2006-10-24 12:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's like asking why doesn't he love you and giving you an answer that makes sense. it won't ever make sense. nothing you can ever do will make a man not cheat on you. either he loves you or he doesn't. be glad you smartened up and moved on physically. now you just need to do so emotionally.
2006-10-24 12:57:08 · answer #11 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋