You've been living together over a year, and for the past 6 weekends they go out after work (10-11pm) to meet "friends" to a bar drinking and come home 5 or 6 am after telling you they are only going out for a drink or 2 and for a little while. Is this normal acceptable behavior within a relationship?
2006-10-24 12:50:33 · 18 answers · asked by Need2Know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not in my relationship ;) I think you two need to sit down and see what is appropriate and acceptable for your relationship. It's quite alright for them to have nights out, but not every single weekend! But talk about it, and set some ground rules.
2006-10-24 12:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO its not acceptable behavior.If hes goin out maybe once a week for a few hours with the boys thats fine....but when you are in a serious commited relationship that is not tolerable. I would not accept that ****. Me and my man enjoy going out together on the weekends,,,,once in a great while he will stop out for a drink after work on a friday then come straight home in an hour or two.....if i were you i would look into that a little more...all of a sudden hes doing these things??? maybe hes out cheating on you,,,,im sorry honey but had to say it.
2006-10-24 12:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 20:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is not normal at all.. He/she is probably chetting on you.. A couple of drinks for 5 or 6 hours, come on now, it dosnt take that long.. Ask him or her if they wouldnt mind if you go out with them too sometime and see what she/he says. if she/he gets all defensive then she/he is cheating.. sorry to say it.. I would not put up with this, actually i didnt put up with it when it happened to me, found out he was cheating on me, caught him red handed with a co-worker. You deserve better.
2006-10-24 13:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by izzaluvpaints 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens occasionally, it's OK.
But if its every weekend, it's definitely not OK. Go with him next time, or tell him you want to go somewhere with him.
Nip this in the bud before it becomes a habit.
Is he an alcoholic? Or a philanderer?
2006-10-24 13:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok. This very reason is one of many why I am divorcing. My soon to be ex thought it was ok to do this b/c he "works so hard" and deserves his time alone to do what he wants. While I was stay at home mom with our kids all day.
2006-10-24 12:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anjanette A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not acceptable. Every once in awhile, maybe. But not for the past six weekends.
2006-10-24 12:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello no!! thats breaking some trust issues, if you say you are going out for a few drinks and stay out all night thats just not right!! Its so rude!! that would make me very mad!
2006-10-24 12:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by fooluvver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all...very disrespectful. I see red flags..I'd put a stop to that right away. Good Luck
2006-10-24 12:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by barbi316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me. I can't imagine it would be for most people.
Do you think it's normal acceptable behavior?
Is he/she acting like you're being unreasonable if you complain?
That's abuse.
2006-10-24 12:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋