My ex-boyfriend was the one who ended the relationship but after he would still say hi to me on msn. He use to contact me on msn at least once or twice a week but now it's not as frequent as before. We only dated for one month and he ended it 8 months ago. Since May, he's said hi to me on msn 4 times. I doubt he still has feelings or even wants to get back together, I know that he's just being friendly but why? I mean he's 24, older than me, I'm 20, we only dated for a month and he's dated A LOT of girls, while he was my first boyfriend. So why is he even trying to still be friendly?
By the way, it was an innocent relationship, it never went past kissing, cuz he knew I'm saving sex for marriage. So don't say cuz he wants booty, cuz he knows I ain't gonna give him any.
So guys why does my ex still wanna be friendly,despite all the things I said, and in general why do guys do this?
2006-10-24 12:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I usually hear women complain that their ex's are nasty to them...this is a new one, my ex is too friendly. Maybe he is a decent guy and even though it didnt work out he didnt want to hurt you...
good for you on the waiting thing though, but just remember, dont give in ever, you will hate yourself for it...even if it was with me and the best you would ever get...lmao...
2006-10-24 12:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, a guy will keep as many women on the back burner as possible. The basic idea is he can use you at some point. Maybe just for an afternoon to use some tickets he has, or maybe sex.
2006-10-24 19:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with null, it's about having as many 'possibles' out there as you can. Although I never use msn, my phone definitely gets a good workout when I'm drunk re messages and calls to old flames and singles.
2006-10-24 19:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by prawnhead_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabey because he has nothing to do. I do that sometimes. But i so comend you for saving yourself. At least some people have some sense in this society.
2006-10-24 20:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to keep you in his back pocket, just in case he can't find another true love.
2006-10-24 19:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he a Leo?
Apparently we like to be friends with all our ex's...
2006-10-24 19:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to be friends. not bf/gf
2006-10-24 20:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys aren't jerks, we will still be nice to you
2006-10-24 19:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by 2007fjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he want to stay friends!!!
2006-10-24 19:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Flirtatious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋