I've been single for 2 years. i'm a goodlooking girl, go out most weekends, but i hardly ever get chatted up. Girls any advice for me, lads any advice on how to approach you's.
2006-10-24 12:49:04 · 21 answers · asked by Kady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must be sending out the signal "Dont mess with me" in your eyes, or your standing very protective or yourself...guys pick up these signals...loosen up, relax and have fun.
2006-10-24 12:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well always understand the depth of water your getting in. But you need to glare and give looks to guys and let them you know your single and open that would help. You can't close off your life. Be open and be you and if that person sees what he likes he will try to advance. If he doesn't go ahead and and get more in depth do cute things while he is watching and you know he is watching. Train well and if he doesn't get the sign go and use a situation as a means to communicate with him. Then he may understand more and it will help you as well. To be up front and open is the most helpful idea. Make friends and if love is there it will show in time.
2006-10-24 12:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by high_metamorph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go looking! Make the most of your life, get into something you enjoy and you will then meet blokes with the same interests.
Not picking up some bloke when you are half cut and regretting it the next day!!
Usually when you aren't looking you seem to attract them more!!
2006-10-24 14:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditto ime a single guy , but haven't a clue what to do to meet some one .now i can go out with the LADS to a pub or club and meet a 1 night stand , but that's not me . i can join a dating agency but that's just sad , plus you got 2 pay , hell when did you have to pay to meet some 1 ?
2006-10-24 13:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by El Diablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't come across as easy the occasional glance or smile over is fine dancing by him show him u can move u don't want 2 seem desperate u can tell if a guy likes u they keep staring at u sum r brave enough 2 talk 2 u
2006-10-24 20:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by hotvix1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im going to be honest if your good looking dont be ashamed to walk up to a guy and talk to him. they all like it when a good looking girl talks to them and they really like it when the girl hits on him. Now some boys dont know how to flirt so they do or say things that hurt the girls fellings but thats just there way of flirting. so all i can say is go for it talk to boys get to know them. But be careful who you go out with. Dont get so anxious to have a boyfriend that you go out with a complete loser. I think you'll do just fine.
2006-10-24 12:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well keep it simple be yourself and make the best of your attributes. Give a guy a chance to speak to you, ask for info or something!! Otherwise learn to maintain a little eye contact and smile, it gives them courage to come over.
2006-10-24 12:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't live in Australia - someone here'd snap you up in a second. Maybe guys are intimidated by you? I might be able to give better advice if you forward me a photo?
2006-10-24 12:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by prawnhead_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can E-mail me if you like!!! Failing that, you may be looking for someone. Look like you are just having fun, for some reason a girl that looks unavailable is much more appealing.
2006-10-24 13:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Bealzebub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to clubs you could be looking for the wrong man, ie a one night stand so try going into town andhaving a coffee with the girls one lunchtime
2006-10-24 14:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your are attractive then all you have to do is go up and talk to a guy he will be flattered and hopefully ask you out if there is some chemistry there.
2006-10-24 12:53:55 · answer #11 · answered by malisimo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋