I've been single for 2 years. i'm a goodlooking girl, go out most weekends, but i hardly ever get chatted up. Girls any advice for me, lads any advice on how to approach you's.
2006-10-24 12:45:10 · 16 answers · asked by Kady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you do it! flirt with a lad you fancy....its the new millenium...not the 18th century!
2006-10-24 12:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by ben b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Don't hide in a pack of girls. A guy is much more likely to come over if your not surrounded by blockers.
2.Chat up with the guys yourself. Just say something to get the ball rolling.
3.Dress sexy(but not slutty)
4.Look around at the guys, make eye contact and look away. Smile. These show you are interested and looking.
5.Try going out to events where you do something, then you get an excuse to talk
2006-10-24 19:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha my advice? It would be try something new. Well it's simple, if what ur doing now doesn't help, then just try something new...maybe try a new hobby or something? Or go to somewhere new to hang out?
Also beware of ur body language, if ur acting all horrible or something, u might scare guys away (just an advice)
And when u do find a guy you like, DON'T flirt like hell, take it easy and slow down lol. Make sure he knows how u feel though (a.k.a flirt a little)
2006-10-25 04:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by perfectly_messy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u need to start conversation about anything just to get u with that one crowd or person that all the attention is focused on. Then to approach a guy u need to be smooth about it. Or just do it with no problem. Just go up to him and just start up a conversation just like when ur talkin to girls but u know where that line is drawn with the whole talkin thing.
2006-10-24 19:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you presenting the best you? Be sure to be clean and tidy. Wearing clean clothes that don't reveal too much or too little.
Watch your body language, don't sit in the corner, don't fold your arms across your chest. But also don't be too outstanding, oraggressive. Try to relax and be yourself, not some drama of the girl who is inside. And don't appear desparate , if that's possible.
2006-10-24 19:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you ever stopped to think on how your carry yourself attitude wise. You say your good looking but if you walk around like your $*** don't stink then that would be a reason guys don't approach you. This is just this guys point of view.
2006-10-24 19:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by jacarig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe guys dont even try to talk to you if you are attractive unless you have this aura of just being unapproachable or not wanting to be bothered...but the more you look the less you find so let it come to you...
2006-10-24 19:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my advice is to stop looking for a relationship and let it comee to you. by that i mean. lay back do your own thing have fun on your own terms and when the opportunity presents itself don't hold back butdon't push either. you don't want to scare him away.
2006-10-24 19:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably has nothing to do with your looks at all. you need to be aware of your body language. make sure that you are giving off a positive aura about yourself. make them want to come and talk to you.
2006-10-24 21:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Call me. We have a romantic steak dinner for two waiting for US !!!!! I'll light the candles when you call. ps. The flowers are fresh picked :)
2006-10-24 19:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋