i felt that would be danger for my future marriage life.. but she only first asked me to have sexual contact with me. that is good or bad?
2006-10-24 12:43:13 · 16 answers · asked by surya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In all honesty, you'll probably regret it. Sex is very emotional, and its about communication between two people who love each other. Casual sexual relationships always end badly. You might get really attached, and probably she's done this before, so she won't get attached. In such a situation, your left feeling full of regret and shame, and you really don't want all that for just cheap sex. Because you want to get married, if your wife every found out, she wouldn't value your sex together. Also, other potential girlfriends wouldn't either. And what happens if you get this girl pregnant? Your stuck with someone your not emotionally attracted too and that jeopardising the new child's future. Overall, its a bad idea. Nothing good would come from it, but an hour of pleasure. She obviously doesn't really want you for the right reasons.
2006-10-24 13:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
having sex before marriage is legally and ethically very wrong.first of all you should understand that girl is a girl of lust and not of love you both are made close only because of lust.i don't know what age you belong to but my answer is no.if a man win himself he can do any thing in world.my sincere request is stop speaking to her and if she again lifts up sex again say strictly no.
what kind of person you are is determined by the decisions you take.
2006-10-24 23:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by pepsi n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It jus means she is a flirt. She also might be carrying a rick of sexual diseases. So better not. If still insisting you might have to take a lot of care.
2006-10-25 00:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just lookin for sexual satisfaction. Its for u to decide what u want ... pleasure or serious relation, she is not serious for sure and neither a virgin just be careful, take precautions.
2006-10-25 03:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want marriage, you don't need a friend with benefits. But if you want to have fun, go for it.
2006-10-24 19:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley W. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries. Just relax. Do not repeat it too often.
2006-10-25 00:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me..i'd hit it
2006-10-24 19:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by acoopmakeup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds good to me
2006-10-24 19:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by k70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you use protection, this woman obviously isn't a virgin.
2006-10-24 19:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry and enjoy safe sex
2006-10-24 21:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by malcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋