Okay...I'm going out with this guy I've liked for 2 years!! yay! We made a deal. In the next 2 dayz he's supposed 2 prove he luvz me. He don't know how. He wants me to tell him how. What should I say 2 him?? I know this is costing me points...but I need an answer!!!! FAST!!!! pleez answer me!!!
2006-10-24 12:08:34 · 21 answers · asked by J.D. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to prove his love. I would say he should have been proving it the last 2 years. Okay you need a serious answer I would say have him tatoo your name on his arm or over his heart. In my lifetime I had two diffrent guys that I seriously thought I was going to settle down with back when I was much younger and oh so immature but to prove they loved me I had them tatoo my name on them. Suprisingly they did. So there is one possibility you can take. It is going to hurt like hell but hey he loves you.\
Good luck!
2006-10-24 12:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay first of all ....from experience if he does not know how to prove he loves you---then its a no go. Sounds to me like you are trying to force him to love you...and that will fail everytime.
Don't "make deals" when it comes to relationships. That will never work. Let it happen naturally. You will know how to tell if he loves you by his actions rather than his words
Example if he calls you just because, if he plays with your hair, if he looks at your eyes when he talks to you and if he genuinely cares about your worries...that's love.
Dont' force him to prove anything, that will come with time.
2006-10-24 19:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he really loved you he would know just to be himself, and kiss you like he has never kissed someone.. the kiss will do all the talking 4 him.
2006-10-24 19:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by summerhottie532 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt need 2 knoe how all he need 2 do is be himself u love him da way he is not by how u want him 2 luv u
2006-10-24 19:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by dahina t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more a personal question you need to decide for yourself. What do you consider 'love'.
1.You could go with..love=money and ask him to buy you something
2.You could go with love=friendship and ask for a buddy band
3.You could go with love=slavery and ask him to be your slave
Ect.
2006-10-24 19:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he shouldn't have to ask. Tell him to be creative, because no matter what comes from him is always special.
2006-10-24 19:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he should have to PROVE to you that he loves you. No one that is really in love with someone needs to have it proven to them.
2006-10-24 19:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to saprize you with things like roses or choclates or some other type of flower and i am sure it will turn out great
2006-10-24 19:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by aimee R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you want him to show that he really loves you then 1st off he should put that on everything he loves (including you) and then you let him decide whats tha best way to show he love you
2006-10-24 19:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by delicious0610 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then have him treat you like the lady you are (but keep in mind he is hoping you'll agree to sex)
2006-10-24 19:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋