Why is it that uneducated men with no college and a mundane physical labor job always need to know where a woman works? Especially on the first date? Is it any of their business? Why are men so darn nosy and busy bodies like fags? Why do a man always want a woman with something when he has nothing? Does he think no one will notice or question him? Why don't guys know it's the man's job to work, not the woman's? Does Kevin Federline have his own cult?
2006-10-24 12:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because the answers are in your explanation.
2006-10-24 12:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL. That is a VERY GOOD QUESTION! the times have changed and with out the proper upbringing and the increased single parent (mother head of household) home, boys are raised by mothers and many end up being Mammas boys because there mother will do everything for them without the proper discipline of a father figure. Many dont see or have a proper male role model and when they grow up they expect to be babied and catered to not only emotionally but financially. So of course they want to make sure that you have a good job because if a woman makes less than him..BY GOLLY they might have to be a man and open the door for her and pay for her dinner.
Believe it or not I have heard this pick up line one too many at the store ("Hey, are you going to buy me something?" Believe it or not they are serious and think its cute. Well.. Its repulsive.
2006-10-24 12:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by DancinDeeva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 04:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by reeves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they either want to use us or make sure we aren't doing better then them. I have had this experience, and don't plan to again. It's just as bad as asking how many men have we slept with, on the first date? Ummm screw YOU. Hang in there, someone is out there for you.
2006-10-24 12:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just can't believe that you hold down a job ... or
maybe years of being asked that by females have just rubbed off on them ...
Dr Bad
ps .. dancing dee .. u obviously know a lot of BOYS not men... and by the way ...what job DO YOU DO..?
Well said Carmen .. wow .. a real woman ... at last
2006-10-24 12:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl,
Its ok for them to Ask, but you don't always have to tell them the truth,
You should just say what do you do?
OH Nothing - Oh thats a shame!
And Avoid the Question, or answer with something like, I am in the space program
they'll ask the What? you'll say yeah I wanna work at NASA.
or if he's a decent guy who happens to have a crap job like garbage man, I say go for it.
and tell him you are unemployed and see how they react.
Nice guys do exist but its harder to find them as you get older,fatter, busteed, and have kids.
and honestly put yourself in there shoes.
You don't want a bum do you?
2006-10-24 12:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are trying to hit on too many subjects.. ...first of all, you need to edit your answer and take "fags" out of it as you so stupidly did.. ..that makes you sound uneducated and inmature... ...next, maybe men want to make sure you are not a smootcher... ...and lastly, since your dumb a#$ hasnt figured it out, many physical labor jobs like garbage men and construction workers make the best money.. ...go educate yourself dummy!
2006-10-24 12:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Carmen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys define their life by their work..and they define other peoples lives by their work too. Where you work and what you do for a living says a lot about you. It's also common 'neutral' talk. It's harmless and 'everyone' talks about it. Asking about your job is asking about you.
2006-10-24 12:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no but its a conversation starter, come on, what else boring guys with no real education gonna talk about... sports, their fun interesting job, come on
2006-10-24 12:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because men are pigs and hipecritical... and selfish... they just look for ways to use women
2006-10-24 12:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋