2006-10-24 12:05:58 · 22 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's a tough question! Try thinking of some things you did in the past that was funny! Remind her of some stories of when you were little, I bet she will laugh! Try to help with the house work. Ask her why she is upset and tell her that she's not alone because you had a bad day to! The 2 of you should take time to talk over some ice cream! That always cheers me and my daughter up!
2006-10-24 12:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the situation. The best thing is to never rush anything, and to always pull away, be patient and wait for usually the next day. Whenever me and my dad get mad at each other come the next day I'll call or email him and talk to him.
The thing is you should not stop what your doing because she is in a bad mood. Help her out and find out how you can help her, and at the same time get more involved with your mummy.
Sit down, talk to her, and find out what is really bothering her and maybe make a decision as to whenever you both get angry as to what will happen next.
2006-10-24 19:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you are sorry she is maybe having a rough day, but that you are not feeling much "with it" today either. Ask her if she would mind talking with you a bit later or even the next day.
That works for me, when my daughter tells me that. More often than not, she just becomes completely sarcastic and that tends to upset me even more, then tempers and things blow up.
Try something new, diffuse the situation!
Your mother will eventually realize that was mature of you and respect you for it! (at least we can only hope!!)
2006-10-24 19:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by A Nameless Font 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to separate awhile, do something else to divert your thoughts, get out for a walk, go to your room, dont say a word, let her kool off and it should hopefully pass. My son and I do this when we are not in good moods and we respect each other not to talk for the moment and wait until we both got our right minds.
2006-10-24 19:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by rzblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just have a fight? First thing is to allow a bit of time for the two of you to cool down. Then calmly go to her. Keep in mind what the goal is...is it to resolve the issue? Then discuss it. Is it to apologize and move on? Then do so. Also, it always ends better on a hug.
2006-10-24 19:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by M L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that works in my house. Two teenage daughters and a wife/mom that does not have a long fuse, a dry erase board by the front door. good day - smiley face with name beside the smiley, bad day, frowny face with name.
2006-10-24 19:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her, and give her a big hug, it will do you both good. I know tempers flare sometimes, but hey, you are both human. Your mother gets upset at life sometimes just as you do. How angry can one stay when they are told they are loved and get a big hug. It's kind of hard to.
2006-10-24 19:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of each other's way until things have cooled down. then talk to each other about what's going on. no matter how grumpy of a mood you're in, you should ALWAYS talk to your mom!
2006-10-24 19:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a walk around the block to clear your head. At least you can be in a better frame of mind
2006-10-24 19:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and see why exactly she is mad at you, then make sure you get a chance to voice YOUR opinion. Tell her how ou feel and hopefully she will understand. If not, like everyone else said aviod each other
Hope it helps & Good Luck
2006-10-24 19:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by OctoberGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋