im suicidal !i still love my wife after a year apart.her choice.i can't let it go.i've tried but no one is her and i can't meet someone that will love me for me.i'm a nice guy 5'6' 154 wt make around 50.000 per year and have never cheated on or abused a gf.anyone intrested!or tell a freind if your married.help me!
2006-10-24 11:59:31 · 17 answers · asked by Rob C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If ur suicidal then this is not the place for you to be. I am sorry that you feel this way because no woman is worth ur life. You will find someone to take her place in ur heart but u can't keep comparing every woman u meet to ur ex. You sound like a nice guy so just be patient.......love will come. Let go of the ex. Move on......I am sure she has. Good luck.
2006-10-24 12:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by whozangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperation to be with someone is not what you need right now. You need to take some "you time" for a while and give yourself the chance to emotionally deal with the loss of the relationship with your wife. This is not worth ending your own life. Get friends and family around you as much as you can and just learn how to enjoy your life again, find ways to embrace that freedom and what might be positive things in that, then you'll probably come across a women who's worth it when you weren't even thinking about it.
2006-10-24 19:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide is the worst way out of everything...
i used to think about it and almost did one night but i am an angel and im not going to let some guy ruin my future no matter how bad the past was...
if you must, get some counselling other than yahoo answers.
join some sites like plentyoffish.com and dont be in any rush...you should also pay attention to why she would rather be alone than a couple and maybe your answer to get her back resides there. or maybe you deserve someone else if she isnt willing to share love. love is the most amazing and most heartbreaking experience but its all how you take it. you must put yourself first at times like these and stop pounding on your heart for not having a "significant other". im 19 been single for 3 years its alot to explain but i am a dream waiting to come true but no one on this earth has what i have to offer and i waste my love for no one i will wait till im 40 if i have to, and i dont let my brutal past affect me. i am always happy no matter what happens :-) and i know that some day i will finally find my true love and be happy for eternity...and if that doesnt even happen...i will be happy knowing i make others happy and experienced life. all i care about is being happy and knowing others are happy because of me and thats how it should be.
2006-10-24 19:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up!!!! If your wife chose to spend a year apart she didn't love you for you. You are probably a nice guy so divorce and move on with your life. First learn to live with yourself and enjoy your company because if you can't; how do you expect anyone else to enjoy you. Be yourself don't fake who you are. Go to the places the type of person you'd like to be with would go. And remember it's like when your dog dies. You don't go out and look for one just like it because you can never replace that dog. But, if you look around you might just find a new friend and companion that will win your heart on her own merits.
2006-10-24 19:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make attempts to contact some christian counselors and set down and talk with your wife
about seeing the counselor.
God can help you live. What's money got to do with anything? I have been married to the same
man for33 years. Wasn't always a good marriage,
later on in life after all of the partying, Still felt our
lives empty until we found God. We are more happy now, not lots of money, food to eat, we've
got GOD. He takes care of us, our every need.
2006-10-24 19:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Catswoman1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one thing you can do is pray forGod to show what to do. Also you can get out and go on a vacation get a way from it all for awhile and see if that will help you. Also do you have any friends were you work or church that you can talk to. If she left you then she didn't love you seem like a good man so I will pray for you that it will work out. Don't killed yourself take care suzie
2006-10-24 19:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just sad. A personal ad barely disguised as a suicide wish? C'mon, dude. Put a little more thought into things, no? Have some dignity.
2006-10-24 19:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. You are searching for your happiness in another person. They will always let you down. I found God and now He is my source of happiness. Now that I am happy, God brought me a better wife. I would not be able to love her properly unless I, myself, were right with God. Accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior and He shall direct your path.
Sincerely Yours, Pastor Jeff Ludin
2006-10-24 19:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Apostle Jeff 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jesus does not want you to do this....He loves you and can help you through this. "Keep saying you can do all things through Christ which strengthens you" Even if you dont want to you must break through your sorrow and depression by reading the bible, praying, go to church. Some good Pastors in United Pentecostal Churches, or Assemblies of the Lord Jesus Christ can help you. I will pray for you.
2006-10-24 19:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by rzblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you'll find someone eventually. Its not a reason to kill yourself. You seem like a nice guy and there are alot of girls that will be willing to give you a chance.You'll find the one you are looking for. Give it time.
2006-10-24 19:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋