My boyfriend wants some, but i can't bring myself to do it. Im 19, and sorta new to alot of things. I just think the idea of it is nasty. Is it just me, or do alot of girls think its gross? He keeps trying to convince me to do it, he even started begging me....i don't wanna do it, but i don't wanna disappoint him.
2006-10-24 11:55:25 · 11 answers · asked by helpmeout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some do...some don't. Now are you talking about you going down on him or vice verse or both. Anyway give it a try you might like it you might not but you should give it a try. If you don't it's not the end of the world.
2006-10-24 12:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Barry DaLive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's something many people do, but only when they're ready to do it. Your boyfriend pressuring you into it is only going to have the opposite effect and make you more adverse to the idea,
If he loves/respects you he'll leave it up to you. Besides there are so many more fun things you can do together if this act is off the menu
2006-10-24 19:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by kim0na 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the idea of it is pretty nasty too. But, if I were to do it, I would want the act reciprocated because that is only fair. I would not expect him to do for me what I would not do for him as well. I would first look for other ways to be intimate and please him without that... just tell him how you feel and explore other options. Good luck :)
2006-10-24 19:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you're uncomfortable doing that right now. If he continues to pester you he's not showing you the respect you deserve. Move on Sista!
As for myself, I went down on my first girlfriend the first date and enjoyed it myself. But, then again I'm mostly lesbian.
2006-10-24 19:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basiclly he lovesSex...not u ....
dont do it... he only wants ur one-night xxx-sex...the nxt u wont even see him... all guys r like that,,, but there r sum guys who r not nasty & they respect womens... Your not an SexToy...so dump that asshole & find new one who like u not sex,,,
(i know its not that easy, but u gotta get out there & find ur perfect man!)... its like get down w/love not sex... :)
besides if u dont like it, DO NOT DO-IT-JUST LIKE THAT!!!
anyways its 2006... its not like hes da "ONE"...there r many out there,,,waiting for their DreamGirl & that can maybe be you...
Now its on u,,, u wanna date a guy who like u or sex... its all up2u!
2006-10-24 19:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well not everyone... but if you want some tips that you can use and still make him happy i m me or e mail and i will be happy to explain it to you... it is very easy.. and you wont mind doing it.. honest...
2006-10-24 18:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might give you oral if you give it to him,besides you might find it exciting giving him pleasure that drives him over the edge like i get.
2006-10-24 19:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by myke4urnot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give the guy a BJ I mean you are not the only one who does it besides would you wont the same in return
2006-10-24 18:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
everyone does it, you can't get pregnant. Tell him he can go down on you after you finish.
2006-10-24 19:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
YOU MIGHT LIKE IT, I KNOW I DO!!!THERES A START FOR EVERYTHING,RIGHT!!!
2006-10-24 19:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Richie_Grl#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋