My b/f asked me for a ride today after school because he had an interview after school for a job. I gave many rides before and drove him around... and he didn't do anything nice to me.... i mentioned that to him before too when he didn't want to spend some money on lunch for me, same money that i spend on gas on him. And so i feel that he is using me, and i told him that im not a chaffeur and that i can't give him a ride.... ALSO mind the fact, today was a horrible day for me,.... i had a major stomach ache and a nerve in my neck hurts for like a week now, and he didn't think that maybe i am not feeling well, because i wasn't. So anywasy i told him that i wont give him a ride and he was upset and and just left without saying bye... .... like how selfish is that...... he should of planned how he would get to the interview on time before and not depend on me...... im not a chaffeur for him.....
what do you think
2006-10-24 11:53:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he should have asked a day or so before if he wanted a favour not at the last minute and yes...I think he is using you and you were quite within your rights to tell him to go to blazes. I hope you feel better and stick to your guns and maybe he will become a bit more thoughtful toward you for a change.
2006-10-24 12:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So not worth it!The money you spend on dropping him off you could spend going to nice places with your girl friends meeting cuter guys than him!What a jerk! You might aswell buy ourself clothes or anything than be in the company of that guy , really.. Why would you date a guy that doesn't even take the trouble to spoil you when you feel crappy? Let him walk from now on and crusade in your car to find a more supporting man..luck!
2006-10-24 19:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by schat_n 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's one of those guys that are SELFISH.... he either doesn't realize that he is being selfish, or he does and he's an ***....
Tell him he's selfish. Be like " Okay I dont' understand that you can go around asking me for all this stuff, and I always comply, then as soon as I say no, you get upset! I do alot for you, and it would nice if it was appreciated.."
Tell him the honest truth, honesty goes a long way. Clarifys things as well, who knows, maybe you're reading him wrong . ?
Hope this helps
2006-10-24 19:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing. You are not being mean, just honest about how you feel. I would confront him and ask him on a good day that you are feeling a bit better. He should not get mad if he thinks anything of you.
2006-10-24 18:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you did the right thing, take this coming from someone who just got out of a relationship similar... He's obviously a taker, son't let him. If you buckle down and stand your ground he's bound to realize what he was doing wrong and appreciate you for what you were doing.
2006-10-24 18:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by spikityspank 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like a jerk! maybe you should talk more to him about it and figure out why he isnt able to do things for you if you are always doing things for him. personally i wouldnt take his crap if this isnt the 1st time, but i know how you feel. ask him not to always depend on you for everything, but you should give him a little slack i mean guys arent as smart as you think. lol:)
2006-10-24 18:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by mypupismylove 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are having a bad day. If he is so selfish why are you with him. No matter how your feeling, when you care about someone you dont mind doing things for them. You blew up for nothing because you werent feeling good. As far as him not paying for your lunch find someone who is willing to.
2006-10-24 18:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats just cheap as fuc k so have fun with the lil boy, get a man that has a ride or a bus pass, and will pay for himself and most likely you too
2006-10-24 18:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This isnt a ride to his friends house, its for a JOB INTERVIEW!!!! Seems like you dont care if he makes money and maybe you like him having to grovel to you for rides. I take his side here, at least he is trying to do something...
2006-10-24 18:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds to me like both parties are at fault. If this is causing drama in the relationship then it'll never last. Leave now.
2006-10-24 18:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by clancrs 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋