In modern society children hate parents when they become old. Is it the society loosing morality and bondage.
2006-10-24 11:50:10 · 30 answers · asked by bhattathiry 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Because the parents hated their parents when they were children.
2006-10-27 16:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by ECQC 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes! You're right. Parents are the last to learn that life is OK to live just as it is. They want you to excel them in employment, they sacrificed so much for you to become better than them, but when all is said and done...it is your life. Only you can be who you choose to be. Besides, janitor get paid good money. It's the status of the job: just less for parents to brag about to their friends. If you can help support your family, you go for it. Keep life simple..you'll enjoy it more...your folks will too when they realize they have more time to spend with their grandchildren and you. I guess, some sacrifices are worth making. Wonderful question! Your parents will get over it...will you?
2016-03-28 06:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Karia J has the "childerns" answer. From a parents view children get like that out of frustration. Over Parenting. Most all parents don't know how to keep children from running loose and making a disaster out of there lives. Its not easy. Learning these skills they have to be willing to learn them. Kids before judging parents realize why they are doing it. Parents start learning how. There are plenty of resourses, look them up.
2006-10-24 12:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by thresher 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Children are the products of their parents whose message to their children is "do as I do", and until some children breaks the cycle, only then will morality and bondage come back.
2006-10-24 11:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by me_worry? 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion each and every relation is a give and take relation, actually not all children hate their parents, only those do that whose parents are over possesive, and dominated, well i think at grown up stage every body wants freedom, everybody wants to live one's life according their own style, if parents interfere between them than their views clashes and they start hating.
so need is to accept changes by parents and also to understand the feeling of parents by children, if they both spend time with each other and give space to each others point of view than this problem may sort out.
in short we can say that it is the generation gap, becoz of which the views of children and parents do not match.
2006-10-24 18:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by ruchi 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Remember one thing. Parenting is as much a part of our growing up as anything else. We can learn a lot from our children, if only we care to and try.
What age are the children you write about?
If you care to email me personally, then perhaps we can share experiences both as children and as parents. Perhaps that will put things in better perspective, and we can both learn from each other.
2006-10-24 13:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The questioner here is making an overgeneralization. This is false. There are many grown children that I know who take care of their elderly parents every day. Sometimes that care includes financial support. I know at least one child who is supporting his mother financially, and I know several who are taking care of their elderly parents in all phases of care, including bathing them, feeding them, etc. It is hard work, but these people have done it day after day without complaint.
Perhaps the person who is phrasing the question could be clearer with what he or she is observing....
2006-10-24 12:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by blue nickel 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on the parents and the children. Some parents really don't know how to handle or treat their children. Some children just think their parents are wrong all the time and choose to act upon their feelings. They end up disobeying their parents and that is wrong.
2006-10-24 14:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Alisha W 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Parents always try to tell them what is good for their future. Children always want to live the present. But present is not all in life. Hence the conflict.
2006-10-24 17:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Meeto 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people grow up hating their parents because they find out that their parents aren't all they said they were or because they feel that their parents wronged them in some ways when they were growing up. I also think that what we are seeing now is that the older generation grew up in more simplistic times and have trouble understanding their children and vice versa.
2006-10-24 13:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋