ok im with matt, but not a lot of people know
and im not saying this at all to brag and i hate it wehn guys ask me out i rerallly do cuase i say no, but i dont wana say no
and my frriend of like 3832894293 years asked me out today, and i didnt know what to say so i told him i was going out with someone elce caue like ever secine i got boobs, all these like sopmores are asking me out cause thry think im easy to get caue i was with dan and he had a bad reputation, and so like i never ahd sex or anything with him or anyone, and dont plan on it but how do i get rid of this reputaion and exsplain to this guy that i wana be just firends, with out him not being my friend anymore????
2006-10-24 11:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by livers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya, a littl tmi but ok well thanks, but like i dont want guys thinking that im eassy to get and like they can get in my pants whenever they want cause i might dress al little like you know only a little casue i just like it but only a little and its not like a go around flirting with people, cause im not a slut, i just were like some tight pants, only cuase i think theyare funny, do you think it could be becasue i put up with guys slapping my ***, casue i dont like it but i aslo just ignore them
2006-10-24 11:47:43 · update #1
Sorry to say that it usually does not work out that way. Just tell him the truth about how you feel. That is the easiest and best way to handle any situation, yet is seems to be the last option to so many people. You may lose him as a friend, most men want more from a woman and don't put in the same amount of time or effort into a relationship if they don't see it as heading towards something romantic. Just tell the truth and let your friend deal with it... it is that easy. He will either stay around your scene or move away from you. You can't always keep things perfect.
2006-10-24 11:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a tought sit... I have a very similar problem with the many many girls that have tried to flirt with me in my classes. My advice is to talk to your friend and explain your feelings. They've been your friend for a long long time (apparently since prehistoric era) so they should be cool with it. Mostly, if it makes you uncomfortable, well - friends look after your best, right? Your friend should be fine with being casual with your relationship. Besides, this isn't refusal: you still want to be friends with them and who's to say it might not be something more in the future? Trust in your friendship with them. B-)
2006-10-24 11:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Superboyfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl stay in school and concentrate in your english class
tell the guy that you are learning how to write your sentences
you don't have time for him at the moment
that should change your reputation fast
2006-10-24 11:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl if he really cares for u he will understand and if he dont then he didnt care for ya.let him down easily and explain to him that yall can be friends and if something happens between u and matt and i am not sayin it will give him a chance .
2006-10-24 11:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by ~katie~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMM...instead of worrying about "guys" and "boobs" try focusing in your English class.
2006-10-24 11:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have to learn to condense.
2006-10-24 11:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!! LIKE OMG GIRLFRIEND!!! get outta here!! you poor baby... im so sory you have big boobs!!
GROW UP!!
2006-10-24 11:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by alinanonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the situation maybe he'll understand
2006-10-24 11:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre stupid
2006-10-24 11:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by CINDY R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋