Should you get a divorce if your nolonger in love or should you live and be unhappy till death
2006-10-24 11:35:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Get a divorce so that you may have the chance to find your true love.
2006-10-24 11:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Whatever 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no you should not live life being unhappy maybe you should have never been married to begin with sometimes divorce is the best it may save a life if it was has hard to get married as it is to get a divorce people would make sure they married the right person to begin with you don't have the power to make another person happy you have to be happy with your self before you can be happy with any one else being married is being the persons partner by there side not the person slave you should compliment each other in all things not work against fight and tear each other down that person should become you and you become them man and woman coming together as one there is no secrets no lies, and there must be total trust if these things do not exist then there is no marraige.
2006-10-24 11:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My belief is once you have married someone you do not have the right to divorce unless your partner has committed adultery. Love is such a complicated emotion. The Bible teaches us that love isn't just a lighted hearted feeling. Love is patient and kind,love is endurance Love is not puffed up nor prideful. If you will read the book of Matthews it will tell you the meaning of love and give you all the answers concerning divorce. God made convenants with us and when we marry we are making a convenant with the person whom we marry and with the Lord. The Lord says in His word that when you marry someone that you are bound with that person til death. Time can change your feelings. Especially if you forget yourself and think about what you can do to make the other person happy. Good luck trish
2006-10-24 11:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
People fall in and out of love during the course of any long relationship...commitment is important to get through those times when the person you are married to seems distant or things are not ideal. Counseling can help...divorce should not be considered until every other avenue has been exhausted, and then only in cases of adultery or other serious problems. When the people are commited, then they can relax and be themselves and not be constantly worried that their partner is going to leave at the drop of a hat.
2006-10-24 11:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by mynickname 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you call love. Biblical love is a commitment, not a emotion. Usually this degradation of marriage occurs when false expectations are realized. Get real with each other and find common ground to build a new relationship.
2006-10-24 12:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't happily love in the first place, with your spouse and especially with your children, you would not have happiness with the thing you claim as love afterwards.
The best way to avoid divorce is to learn about love and apply it wisely before getting into the really sacred marriage. How man dares boast to be more intelligent than the dove in pursuing love and happiness, while it is not abandoning its family and children.
2006-10-24 11:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what I did. It was very, very hard, but I couldn't face the rest of my life living with someone I wasn't in love with anymore. Now I'm with who I should have been with years ago and am very much in love with him. Even though it was very hard and I'm still sad and cry from time to time, I get better every day. Because now I have a reason to look forward to coming home at night.
There's no reason to live in misery when the marriage is dead. Believe me, hon, I know.
2006-10-24 12:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean love or infatuation? I just see too many people throw away marriages when the infatuation is over, it's sooo tragic.
I Personally don't see how real love (which is quieter, but much more profound) can just end like that.
2006-10-24 11:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people should "try" and make it work. Maybe get some counciling.
But I would not base any decision on the Bible.
Human's are a flawed being and make mistakes, including choosing and marrying the wrong individual. You should not be miserable for the rest of your earthly life because of a mistake.
2006-10-24 11:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by KryptonOne 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
YES,you should get a divorce if your no longer in Love.What was the reason for getting married?Weren't you in love in the first place?Well if you ain't happy and have to fake being in love get out of it.Life is to short and it ain't worth the drama..
2006-10-24 11:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by gblue52 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋