Theres this girl that really likes me, but i dont like her. How do I let her know this withought hurting her feelings. Please help.
2006-10-24 11:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by David 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just say something like "yeah this weekend my GIRLFRIEND and I..." and then she'll know that you're taken.
2006-10-24 11:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by kitiz2cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is always the best policy, but sumtimes a lil lie such as in this case might not hurt , but u obviously care about her so tell her , "hey i really care about u tonz , but i just dont think u an i are right for each other , and i dont feel the same about u as u do me , im really sorry , and i dont wanna hurt u , but i had to be honest with u cuz i care so much about u!" and if that dont work ur screwed lol
2006-10-24 18:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tim P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either way your going to hurt her no matter what. If you tell her or just shine her on. Just ask her to go have a coke somewhere or some coffee sit with her and talk about it. Don't just blat out tell her spend a little time with her and ask her out for a coffee or something and just tell her...I'm not interested in dating at this time im real busy or ....dont want to date at this time in my life but lets be friends.
2006-10-24 18:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by tinalovesmusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itz all in the approach! ask to speak to her privately or catch her at a good time when she's by herself. Then let her know what a great person she is (assuming she is one) and explain to her that you dont exactly think you're the right one for her. and that you guys are better off as just friends!
2006-10-24 18:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, her feelings will hurt but she will get over it....but I am a girl and I would like to know if I wasn't liked by someone I did like!! Just TELL HER!!
2006-10-24 18:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter and let her know that u do not like her and that u just like her as a friend. or get a girl friend that will give her an idea
2006-10-24 18:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down alone and tell her that you think she's really sweet but you're just not attracted to her that way. You respect her for her sincerity in liking you and that maybe it would wiser to move on to someone else? And maybe you can be just friends? :)
2006-10-24 18:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are interested in your friendship and that you don't want to mess it up. This way you don't hurt her feelings and you still have a friend.
2006-10-24 18:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by illusion_03420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very honest about it and first say something positive to her like "I think you are a very nice girl, but not for me,so good luck on your search"..... always start out saying something positive so the girl does not think you are a dog.........
2006-10-24 18:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by bonbon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Striaght to the point...tell her...You don't want to hurt her, so don't wait around. When she ask you to do something tell her you aren;t interested...Keep your distance from her when you hanging out. She'll get the hint. Eventually someday.
2006-10-24 18:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what I suggest is tell her that you think she is really nice and all but you just don't feel the same way and you would be better off as freinds either that or say that you like her just not in that way.
2006-10-24 18:39:03 · answer #11 · answered by clarkkentrules200648 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋