so i like this guy. well....i think i do anyway. how do i let him know w/o really telling him? and i don't really want to go out w/ him cuz i really don't like his friends and my mum would go crazy!! what do i do? i really like him!! (i think) and i think he likes me to. but i don't really know if he does. he flirts a lot and if supper nice to me but i still don't know. what do i do? how can i let him know that i like him? i don't really want to tell tell him....and how do i know if he likes me?
2006-10-24 11:11:01 · 9 answers · asked by Emy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's the difference if you don't want to go out with him? If you tell him you like him but you'd rather not go out with him, he'll be hurt. If you don't tell him you like him, he can have a chance to meet girls who actually would like to go out with him. If you really like him, you should ask yourself why you don't want to go out with him.
2006-10-24 11:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, if he flirts that's a small sign that he may have feelings for you. I'm going through the same thing, accept he has a gf, yet he flirts with me constantly. I would just ask him. go 4 it. When he's alone pull him aside and just talk to him. tell him u lyk him. Or u can call him or giv him a letter telling him u think u lyk him more than a friend. It seems hard, but let him know. And keep this away from your mom if u want to see him again. lol. My mom is way protective. she doesn't want me dating til I'm 18....
2006-10-24 18:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out being honest tell him how you feel dont go on thinking if he flirts with you he likes you as well flirting this day and time can mean almost anything.so just tell him that hey i really do like you and how do feel about me sometime a guy likes when you take the first step because most are scary anyway hey what can we say its a guy thing.good luck
2006-10-24 18:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by feedupwitu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo girl...LET IT OUT! You like the boy and you know it or else you wouldnt be on here askin for advice. Now!!! Go....go and tell him. Dont be shy..who cares what ur mom thinks now..cuz she's ur mom and she's always gonna love you regardless of what she says now! A forget about his friends..just cuz you dont like them doesnt mean you should sacrifice ur happieness! Come one....life is to short..be strong and DO IT! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-24 18:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by nikki nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you like him but don't wanna go out with him??? just tell him that just like that. Most guys will jump at a chance like that.
2006-10-24 18:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u have to know if u like him or not because maybe he likes u and u think u like him. what if he askes u out? what would u say " sorry but i didn't really like u?" that's gonna hurt his feelins. u have to figure out ur feelings first
2006-10-24 18:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a friend tell him you like him but make it as though you dont want him to know
2006-10-25 15:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with him
2006-10-24 18:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are embarrassed of him. you don't like his friends, your mum would not approve. why are you bothering with him. find someone you do want to be with.
2006-10-24 18:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋