my mom and i never get along..ever.. i am the most overprotected high schooler i know.. she made a rule that when i go to sleep i have to sleep under the sheets, because sleeping ontop of the sheets in unhealty.. and this morning it was a little cold outside but not super cold.. i mean come on its florida were talking about here.. anyway she was like you need to put on jeans and i was like nah and besides all my clean jeans dont fit right.. which was just an excuse to have her stop tell ing me to wear jeans.. so i wore my skirt.. and when i got home she took all my jeans out of my closet and i dont know hwere they are.. and i know when she comes home im going to be in so much trouble.. is there anything i can do to make this better??
2006-10-24 11:04:54 · 4 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mom is the same way. I wud suck up to her even though u probably want to punch her in her face. lol.jk. but do whatever it takes to make her happy. Apologize for not "listening'' to her. Once she's happy, you'll be happy too. Be the nicest you can and do favors for her. It works on my mom most of the time. Try it, practice and you'll get gud. lol
2006-10-24 11:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just do what your mom tells you. It may drive you crazy and you may disagree with what she tells you to do. Remember that she was teenager once and her mother probably did the same things to her that she is doing to you.
The reason your jeans weren't in the closet when you got home is because she told you to wear jeans and you made the conscious decision to go against what she told you to do.
As long as she is taking care of you and raising you, you need to respect her wishes even if you don't agree with them. There will be plenty of time to do things your way once you are an adult and have children of your own.
When we're kids our parents tell us to do things for a reason.
You may want to try finding out why she does the things she does.
2006-10-24 18:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your mom sounds like she is tripping. There is always two sides to every story. Maybe she feels as if anytime she ask you to do something, you don't do it. Then again she could just be like you said over protective. But the removal of all your jeans issue, she is tripping. I would ask her, " why did you take my jeans." to get on her good side do as she ask for about 30 days. Then things should kind of chill out. My suggestion, pick a college away from home.
2006-10-24 18:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call a shrink.
seriously, her treating you like this is emotonal abuse. its totally unacceptable.
2006-10-24 18:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by flangel80190 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋