So i am seeing this guy Brian. And i think he might be the one but my friends dont like him and they want me to ask out my friend Jesse. I like Jesse, yes, but not enough to leave my boyfriend. Then there is the issue of my ex-fiancee, i still have feelings for him but i love Brian, and my mom wants me to get back with my ex fiancee so bad she has even made me stop talking to my boifriend. Its bad enough i hardly ever see him, now i cant even talk to him. Now heres the problem, my friend Vince says that Brian has said some badthings about me, like i annoy him with the calls, and 2 weeks ago i broke up with him and he said he didnt care but he claims to love me, we did get back together. But it still hurts that he said something like that. I asked brian to see if it was true and he said it is, i feel so hurt. Should I leave him for this??
2006-10-24 11:00:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok to those of u ho think its stupid. My boyfriend said those things after we broke up and he got down on his hands and knees to get me back with him. He loves me i believe this, and i love him but ppl here dont get that! some of you have given me really good advice, i havnt found the best answer yet, but i will take everything all of you have told me to heart.
2006-10-24 11:13:14 · update #1
I think you need to step away from everyone and search your heart for your true feelings. Of course it hurts when people you care about say things that are bad, but since he didn't say them directly to you, you don't really know the truth. Take some time and then sit and talk to him about your future. it will work out :)
2006-10-24 11:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by legallybrunette510 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure you are mature enough to date much less get married...you have way way too many things going on here and need to slow down and really look at what you got going on...your friends wanting you to go with a guy they know is a non issue, but them and your mom not liking your current guy is a likely sign that they see something you don't. They are not going to try and hurt you and sabotage your relationship if they don't believe it is necessary. If the other guy who told you this guy talks down about you is not someone who wants to be with you, then take him at his word, he too has no reason to try and break you up other than he is your friend. You need to come to grips with your feelings for your ex, because until you do that you should not be having other men in your life, it is not fair to them...resolve it...
2006-10-24 11:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person dont speak for them self it doesnt mean its a good thing, once it get to the point they do explow (like me), what every comes out of there mouth is true words, hes upset about you, do you think you have soming that you need to chang for brian in the relationship? the trueth always hurt, but its the trueth feelings of him, where did he get all these weird ideas of you annoy his call, maybe you didnt. try to put yourslef in his shoes maybe you will feel what hes feeling right now.
look far ahead instead of looking at now, dont break up with him because of others tell you to. Chose one that you think it will last and work out at the end.
2006-10-24 11:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by TN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not 100% sure about any one of these men in your life, then perhaps none of them are right for you.
Since you are having so much difficulty with choosing a man for yourself, then maybe you need some professional counselling in this matter. Perhaps a dating agency can help you find a compatible man.
Your friends and your mom have their own tastes in men. And the men they choose for you may not be the men who are right for you.
2006-10-24 11:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your bf said these things cause he hurt and said it out of anger .. we dont always think straight were hurting.. as for your mom if you old enough to have a exfinacee than your old enough to make up your own mind as who to be with,, but now if your still living at home and are not old enough to work than that is another story.. but by saying you have a exfinacee i am going to assume that your are at least 18 out of school and living as adult in your own place
2006-10-24 11:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should control ur life than letting other dictate things for you. go with what u like. also if u are hearing things from others that may not be true, it is better to ask ur boyfriend directly. hope this helps
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2006-10-24 11:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by paribest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wasnt graveling to get you back, dump him..
you've gotta train tem right. lol. to the point where they cant live without you..
another thing, just because he loves you doesn't mean that he is IN love with you..
2006-10-24 11:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by flangel80190 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow are the names of these people really important? ..i think not.
2006-10-24 11:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by bunty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him- yes.
2006-10-24 11:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you. Sorry S L U T !!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 11:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Bob Onya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋