If you tip a waitress or a waiter above say 20%, and you are of the opposite sex of said person, will they get the idea that you are just a good tipper or that you want to get in thier pants?
2006-10-24 10:57:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to be a waitress, and believe me, I didn't see customers who tipped me well as anything more than really good tippers who must have enjoyed their meal. I don't think any waiter or waitress would be offended by a large tip, as long as the tip isn't accompanied by a lewd pick-up line.
2006-10-24 10:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where you live...In western canada, if you tip a waiter/waitress [of the opposite sex] AT ALL, it automatically means you're interested...
but if you live anywhere else LOL I think the following rule applies:
---If you've been flirting with them all evening and then you end up tipping them say 35%, they *may* (!) think you're interested...
--- If you've been casual and polite all evening and were very pleased with the service you've been given, then I guess you can tip as much as you want and nobody will get wrong ideas...
Hope this helps!!
2006-10-24 11:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know it really shouldn't send to much of a negative message. Then again it depends on your actions through the time that they were serving you. It's pointless to "try" and get in the pants if you haven't made a move. At that point it would have been just a big tip.
2006-10-24 11:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by DLB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, a good tipper...getting into their pants would be the tip, your phone number, and your house address. lol
2006-10-24 10:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by roverriffer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Body language as well as verbal and non-verbal communication will reveal more than your tip. Your tip will help the waitress decide how she'll respond to your advances!
2006-10-24 11:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Baz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are too busy thinking of the other tables that they have to do more then pat themselves on the back for a job welldone
2006-10-24 11:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by swami242 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the expression on your face. also the tipping says how good the waiter/ress was.
2006-10-24 10:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it once and your a good tipper, do it twice and you are a good customer---3 times--you want some lovin'
2006-10-24 11:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by bunya00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This gives the impression you are not cheap and appreciate good service.
2006-10-24 10:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by Binky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To judge first impressions are for the weak and stupid.
2006-10-24 11:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋