There's this girl where the only thing we know about one another is each other's name. We've actullay talked a little before becus her friend used to like me and she was trying to get me to talk with her friend, but that was in the 7th grade. During middle school for some reason...I never have said hi to her. We're both freshmen and go to the same school and she even lives at the end of my neighborhood! I need help on what I should do in order to get to know her and try to become friends with her. Last week it was the first time I ever said hi to her (and yes she smiled and said hi back.) I finally had the balls to even do that, and I hope that she finally knows that I know she exists! Today I even talked with her for a lil' bit bout' if she went to homecoming and I me noticing she recently got her braces and braces talk...? I know it's pathetic...but hey that's just the type of person I am....So, ladies can u pleeeeeez help me out? Help would be much appreciated. Thanks ;-]
2006-10-24 10:49:44 · 19 answers · asked by searching_for_sneaks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her start up a conversation. If sh talks back and seems interested then ask her out. Ease into it if you go to fast you'll freak her out and she won't like you. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-24 10:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't be nervous. I used to be stuck in a similar situation with a guy, and it took all my guts to make the first move. First, start by saying 'hi' regulary whenever you see her. Oh, and say her name as well! Look at her in the eyes when she's talking so she knows that all your attention is on her. If she gets a good grade, compliment her! You'll be surprised how a little phrase can get you in a big conversation. It'll take a long time until your both comfortable with eachother, and that's fine! There's a chance that she might be interested as well, but is just shy to make the first move. So, take a chance and talk to her before someone else sweeps her from you!
2006-10-24 17:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by f3tchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha sorry not a lady but a good idea would be to keep the chatting up on a regular basis, maybe once ask if you can hang at her house, and although you are shy, you have to look past it (because i was too b4 i got my first gf) and go for what you want...One day just leave flowers with her mom to give to her with a sweet card on it, but not too sweet (cuz u dont want to seem like some psycho) and then once you do get someone (whether its her or not) you really won't be too shy anymore. Trust me... I shiver in front of the class when I have to do a presentation, but i'm not scared of girls anymore ^_-.
Oh yeah heres a way to get money for them flowers
just go to http://www.treasuretrooper.com/185178 and sign up (with a crap email account cuz there gonna send ads to it) register at the site, go to cash offers and find any offer with "intent" in the description. click on the offer, type ur email or zip code, and theres 50 cents on ur account. Theres probably 100 ads like that on there, so thats an easy 50$ + a week. I made 45$ in 15 minutes yesterday..
2006-10-24 17:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to just be yourself. When I first met my husband he nearly fell into a fountain because he was so nervous! I thought it was so cute. Remember that you are still young and have fun with dating. Don't take things to serious but be a gentleman and kind to this young lady at all times. Girls like confident men, but showing a little weakness is also very cute. Sorry to sound cliche, but be yourself. Don't worry aboout your conversation today. Relationships start with friendships and friendships start with small talk. Hope this helps you, bye now.
2006-10-24 17:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by moe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b straight up with her. girls like confidence. just ask her if maybe she would like 2 go out sometime and get 2 know eachother better. whats the worst that could happen? she can say no, and if she does then u never had a chance with her in the first place. good luck, i hope this helps
2006-10-24 17:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by shadowpaws2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live next to each other it's easy... ask her to go together to school so you can talk about what happens during the day. Ask her things about her life... for example her tastes on music, sports....her likes and dislikes so you can surprise her sometimes.
You can also tell her things about yourself. First you have to know each other well!
The next step is easy,... some flowers, chocolates, cinema... well... good luck!
2006-10-24 17:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ana GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you've got plenty of time to get it right. Mostly just be yourself and in conversation with her, make eye contact and be interested in what she has to say. Just listen to get to know her, and speak from your heart so she can get to know you. Keep in mind that she's probably as shy and awkward as you are. It's not a race, it's a learning process, learning who she is, who you are, and if who you both are works well together. Take your time, breathe, listen, and speak your truth.
2006-10-24 18:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a poem like this:
i have a question 4 u,
plz say yes and ill be fine,
the question goes like this
(her name) plz be mine.
iv watched u from far away,
iv dun it as long as i can,
plz understand this (her name)
I want to be ur man.
i cannot deny the truth,
no matter what i do,
and the truth is here,
(her name) ill always love you!
I hope i helped. if i didnt, hey im only an 11 yr old girl!
2006-10-24 18:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and try to find things she's interested in and talk to her about them. Believe me I'm the same age as you and am very shy....but sometimes you just have to be outgoing. I know....easier said than done. Anyways....Good Luck!!
2006-10-24 17:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by *~The Lovely Me~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try having a regular convesation with her. Get to know her a little better. You never know she might like you too. Good luck!
2006-10-24 17:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by Makenzie♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋