i havnt talk to my gf for like a week i mean we been really busy with school and stuff and the other day she called me. we talked for hours bout everything that was going on and stuff. after a little while i looked at the clock and it was 7 and i told my friend that i would met him. so i told her i had to go and she asked why and i told her.....and she goes "o i see, just leave me here to go out with ur friend" and i told her i would stay and talk if she wanted me too...and she said"no no no, go besides who wants to talk to a hard headed b**** like me" and we was talking bout this for like 30mins and i told her that i love her and she was like w/e. and she just hung up. what did i do??did i like make it sound like that my friend is more importent then she is??
2006-10-24 10:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's being manipulative. If she can't understand that you've made commitments to friends [or whoever], and that you believe in meeting these, then she's being 1] overly sensative and 2] un-compromising. I mean, how would she act if was her running late? Yeh, w/e.... Tell her that you understand her needs, but that when *either* of you make a promise, it should be kept... And talking for hours...that should make her happy - NOT call you a hard headed B****.... You should keep control of you life - don't give it away.
2006-10-24 10:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by NE1sGame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok .. so i think your gf really does like you and she problly misses talking to you so she wants to talk to you more and she's problly jealous that your going with your friend instead of her and she wants to be the most important person in your life, but i also think you had ever right to, especially after talking for hours, go out with your friends, and i think she sounded like she was being way over dramatic. idk if thats just how she is or if it was just then. id set aside a time when both of you can be together with no interuptions, and spend time together. try explain to her again what happend since she'd be calmer than before and make time to spend with her and ur friends and make sure she knows that u want to spend time with her. its not your fault or her fault so dont feel that badly about it.
2006-10-24 17:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense to any girl that reads this also but
girls are confusing
half the time i don't think they even know what their saying or how hurtful it is.
but just talk to her ASAP (as soon as possible) but don't apologize you really didn't do anything wrong you had a prior commitment and if she doesn't respect that, that's her problem, but when you talk dont be like, "it wasn't my fault ***** so stfu"
be honest and say somethin like, " sorry we couldn't talk more, but me and my friend had talked about this for a while" and other stuff like that
2006-10-24 17:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Foamy the Squirrel!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes just jealous because you don't spend time with her any more, she probably thinks that you wanna hang out with you friends more than her. call her and see if she wants to go on a date with you, if she says OK then while your on the date just ask her y she got made at you, and while you guys are on the date try to catch up with her, so she feels like you actually wanna know wats going on, no that you don't its just that sometimes us girls think are boyfriends don't care about wats going on so yeah just try to spend time with her.
good luck
2006-10-24 17:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Chanel babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, just be like, sorry i had to meet a friend and i was late and i was planing to meet him for like a month so it was really important
2006-10-24 17:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its her who was acting weird. so just go up to her and tell her that n say u love her in person. mb she'll lighten up.
2006-10-24 17:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋