moved from glasgow to essex 2 years ago with mini brats... spend 90% of my time with them, seem to spend rest of time either sleeping cleaning or on this...
have went on a couple of dates but what is it with males that think a single mum is easy??
anyone any ideas on how to meet him?? sarcstic male replies we are deffently not interested in!!!
could it be true that i do have an attitude problem???
served me well in scotland but guys dont seem to be able to handle it here..
2006-10-24 10:36:15 · 22 answers · asked by JACQUELINE D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have no "mini brats" as you call them but i've no man either. Recently split so right now I'm allergic to all males, dont worry guys I'm not a man basher just not up for getting into the game again it's still to tender a topic for me to even contemplate, but I think that when I do i'll just be myself, not out looking for someone just having a good time and enjoying myself. Then POP he'll be there it happens every time, dont look so hard, get some girly friends and go out with them and men will flock around soon enough. If you are confident on your own you will be way more attractive to the opposite sex. Good luck!
2006-10-24 11:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am exactly feeling the same as you.... my parents are in a great 30 year relationship where they cant live without each other and they breath for each other and they laugh alot together, share together there 4 each other the list is continuous but....... it seems to be men do not excist like that anymore and no disrespect but especially (not all) the british guys, i find there is no decent gentalmen about any more, the kind that consider how you feel and the kind that dont think your purpose to them is to get your leg over every time you see them........i go clubbing loads as am a huge music fan i dont go there to pick up guys, in night clubs or pubs or bars anywhere where a guy cant hold his drink is the worst places to meet a man... its come to me this has, only after realising THAT i took up a salsa class as i had a passion for the music and the dancing and a 5% intrest in seeing a DECENT guy!! and i have met some really lovely guys all ages and all nationalities and all sharing a intrest with me in dancing and salsa... i am not saying to meet someone at a salsa class but if you want to meet someone whos got intrests in things with you then thats a start so join something that intrests you i.e cookery classes, learn anew subject etc.. this does not have to be every night just once a evening or once every two weeks as i think this is the best way of getting on a track to meeting someone half decent so far........ all i can say is i dont think we are alone!!!!!!
2006-10-24 11:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
Am on the next page ... looking for my sweet heart ...
Please see my question .. and see how you can assess my soul ..
Why am I asking very deep questions about relationship for the last few days here? .. lol .. Because is it:?
1. I cant fall in love at all
2. I dont have money to buy a single rose
3. I am greedy
4. I am so seriuos about my future partner
5. I may not be attractive
6. I dont have opportunities to meet ladies
7. I cant afford to go out
8. I dont have any sense of humour
9. I am a bad person
10. I may have unconventional appearance
11. I may have particular expectation from a lady
12. I may be too romantic and unrealistic
13. I may not have the confidence
14. I may not be bubbly, sincere, honest, kind, adorable
15. I may not be a easy going person
16. I may be a nutter ...lol....
17. I may be depressed
18. I may be very unlucky person
19. I may be a nasty person
20. I may not know how to approach a lady
21. I may be too deep about my loving partner
22. I may be negative about things
23. I may be too respect and value ladies more I than I should do ..
24. I may not lisetn my innersense
25. I may be too extream about my loving parter and scared
26. I may be a born worrier
27. Any more please ...
2006-10-24 11:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Vig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the best and worst people I know are single mums. The worst have attitude problems and see the children as burdens while the best are best friends with their children. You just make your life tougher to find Mr Right with a bad attitude. It will slowly kill the relationship. Most good men will see that.
2006-10-24 11:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by John T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not the only one my dear just think about this and let me tell you I'm still young and wants to party I mean having a boyfriend takes a lot of work but sooner or later someone will come your way so just be who u are. Thinking about relationships right now no I want to have fun and do my best in college. I want to explore the world and have a solid career of my own before mr.right comes a long. I would really love to have a boyfriend sometimes when thinking about it but I got friendly with a guy yeah my prom feeling desperate about not having a date and people convinced me that my date would have been p-erfect that he was mr. right but no he went a little too far I hate it when they do that gosh! So then he backed off and everything stopped so we broke off. All you have to do is to wait for him to come along not for you to be in search enjoy your life and just be who you are. good luck.
2006-10-24 15:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank Fu*k!! I swear I thought I was alone!! Single mum too an I'm getting annoyed with it. I don't wanna meet some drunk guy at the end of the club who just wants his leg over. I don't wanna pay money to join a dating agency cuz a) its sad and b) its full of married men looking for an affair!!! I really don't know what else to do!! I'm not really helping you here am I lol. Wish I could but maybe it feels a bit better knowing your not alone??!! Gonna be watching your answers tho, see if I could get some advice too!! Good luck!
2006-10-24 10:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by cheryl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you spend too long on here?
If you're concerned you have an attitude problem then maybe think about the way you handle situations - see if you think you could handle them better?
Or perhaps it's just the area you live in?
2006-10-24 10:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked could it be true that you have an attitude problem. Either you have identified this problem or someone else has brought it to your attention. Otherwise you would not have included it in your question. So I would therefore be suspicious that you do indeed have an attitude problem.
Also it is no secret that women use sex and flirting to their own advantage. They use it to control men and to get things that they want. So its no surprise that men figure single mums would jump through hoops in order to keep them.
2006-10-24 11:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you definately sound sincere is your search for your "Mr. Right". I can tell that you are trying hard to find him. Remember this: If he's your Mr. Right, then you are his Mrs. Right! He is searching just as hard for you, so don't ever lose hope that he isn't out there. If men think that you are easy and have the nerve to act on it, you can immediately cross them off your list. Your Mr. Right will respect you enough that he won't try to take advantage of you and he will love your kids just as much as he loves you (wich is a ton, a ton, a ton).
2006-10-24 10:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by in love w/ life 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you'll meet him when you least expect it. It always happens that way. If you are desperate to meet him, he'll never be there. Not all men think single mums are easy, so try and find the diamonds, not the big lumps of coal.
Good luck with your quest
2006-10-24 10:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋