i am currently in a relationship (bf and Gf) with a guy i have known since kindergarten. i am getting these feelings for another guy, and my current relationship is not moving. i want be single for a little while, see what happens, and stay friends with mi bf. Help!!!
2006-10-24 10:29:35 · 8 answers · asked by babiee gurl kiki<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you have been with the same guy that you have known since kindergarten it is natural to be curious about other people. If you do not think you would mind your boyfriend dating other people and possibly moving on from YOU, then you know you are capable of moving on, as well. I would broach the subject with him. He might even be feeling the same way -- and that is why your relationship is "not moving." Make sure you clear things up with him before you start dating someone new.
2006-10-24 10:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bit of a sticky situation. But it does sound like you've already kinda given up on your current relationship. Or you want to play but still keep your current boyfriend in your life just in case it doesn't work out with this new guy you're into.
Your options, cheat on your current BF, but if you get caught then you're burned, and you've hurt someone you care about.
You can break up with your boyfriend, which would the honest thing to do, and he still may end up being in your life as a friend. Accept the fact that he may move on and not want to be in your life.
You can get into an argument with your current BF about how your relationship is not going anywhere, and "Take a break". Then get back together after you've had your fun.
The bottom line is this, it seems you're bored with your current relationship, and you're now infatuated with someone else (grass is always greener on the other side). So, let your current BF go and perhaps find real love and you can be single and have fun.
2006-10-24 10:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't just do something because your relationship isn't going well. You have to think it over. Do you really like this guy, and is it worth breaking up with your current boyfriend? And don't dump your man because you want a better relationship. Also, if you've known your bf since Kindergarden, I'm sure he'll understand your problem and respect that.
Just make sure not to make decisions too sudden because you might end up making the wrong one.
2006-10-24 10:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by f3tchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused here: do you want to be single or do you want to be with the new guy you have feelings for?
If you are not that tight with the current b/f by virtue of the relationship going nowhere, just inform him that the status quo does not work for you and you are henceforth a single woman. What is he going to do about it? Sue you?
Then you are free to pursue bachelor number two.
An easier, less confrontational modus operandi would be to just not take number one's calls any more and start flirting with the new man in town. I am sure both men will get the hint in short order.
2006-10-24 10:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it, he is just your bf, your not married. If your not sure about your relationship, it better to find out now.
2006-10-24 10:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Steve J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like, sorry im not feeling it between us anymore..... but ur still a great guy and i still want to be ur friend
2006-10-24 10:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then talk to your boyfriend, tell him you need to brake up, you need time to think about your relationship.
2006-10-24 10:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by gab421angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him loose before you pursue the other guy
2006-10-24 10:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋