I told this boy i like him and he rejected me, so i still talk to him online after i told him since we're still friends. but after about 1 month after i told him, he doesn't talk to me for some reason. can any1 tell me y?
2006-10-24 10:01:47 · 16 answers · asked by Em 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well my guess would be that maybe he's nervous about your friendship knowing you might still like him. Or maybe he's just insecure. But keep in my mind that theres nothing you can do about it, except ask him why and explain to him that you understand him saying no but you still want your friendship. Some guys can get pretty nervous talking to a girl after that. And if you can't do anything about, meaning he still wont talk, maybe he isnt as a good of a friend as you thought he was. Don't keep wasting your time if he doesnt care. = ]
2006-10-24 10:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through this with my 16 yr old daughter alot too. I basically tell her to wait and see what happens before she tells a guy she likes them. Be sure there's feelings both ways and if not then don't set yourself up to be hurt. Some guys just don't like a girl who speaks her mind and is open and upfront. If he wants to be your friend or anything more he will come to you - don't push the issue.
2006-10-24 17:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by J W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He rejected you, and you (for whatever reason) decided to remain friends with him, while knowing he didn't like you. Now he's probably met someone else, or doesn't want you as a friend. Don't worry too much about it-- believe it or not, it happens often in life.
2006-10-24 17:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly to him you seem desperate. Possibly. Unusually if some one gets rejected by a person, they don't tend to tell them we're still friends after wards. They tend to move on. You didn't, move on that is. So he thinks there is something wrong with you.
2006-10-24 17:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must not talk to you because he may think that you're starting to like him again and he may not feel right having a friend that likes him. Imagine if you found out someone likes you and everyone knows that if a friend likes you it definetly helps or ruins you relationship.
2006-10-24 17:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to be friends with you and doesn't know how to tell you. The fact you like him and want to be friends with him doesn't always create reciprocation unfortunately. Not all people react the way you want them to. Perhaps you need to accept that he may not be destined to be your friend. That's OK , as there'll be plenty of others who will be. It just part of life.
2006-10-24 17:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Pseudo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a girlfriend now. One who would prefer that he not talk with other girls online. Especially girls who have admitted to liking him. Or he's just a flake.
2006-10-24 17:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-24 17:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
im sorry he doesn't talk to you anymore, but its not because he dislikes you or anything. he probably doesnt want you to feel awkward towards him. he'll come around if you dont give up
2006-10-24 17:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by moodybooty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably he feels weird talking to you after you've expressed feelings for him.
2006-10-24 17:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by crazydogg_2001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋