i met this woman whose husband walked out on her, we had a great two days.
We got affectionate but not going too far as she wasn't fully recovered so we moved at her pace.
i just found out that the old man came back and she's thinking about taking him back.
i really like this girl should i fight for her or let her go
2006-10-24 09:53:04 · 26 answers · asked by jawtar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to back away until she straightens out her life. She needs to make a decision who she wants to be with. My concern is if she decides on you in a few weeks, she might change her mind AGAIN and take him back. She is playing with two lives here and needs to think about what she really wants and let you know. It is ok for you to tell her how you feel but with no pressure. If it is meant to be, it will happen.... Good Luck
2006-10-24 09:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by bonbon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those kind of relationships (like the one she has with her husband), do not always end that easily. You had two great days with her, she's been married to this guy for a reason. Maybe she's crazy for taking him back, but it is understandable. I think you should let her go and not get into the type of situation that you end up waiting for her to be brokenhearted again.
2006-10-24 17:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Just curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, but respect whatever decision she makes. Are there children involved? If so, she may sacrifice in their behalf and go back regardless of her feelings for you. If she and her husband have been together for a very long time, it will be more difficult for her to let go. If he CHEATED on her, you can be sure he will do it again. She is probably extremely confused right now. If you tell her how you feel, you must be prepared for her response to go either way. The heart is complicated. Linda
2006-10-24 16:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by bionicbitchofbytown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the skinny…
She's a married woman who was looking to cheat on her husband, and then backed out of it… and you're looking to fight for her… why would you do that?
The answer is simple… let her know you want out of this sordid affair… actually, no affair, no punanny… there you have it.
Just for kicks… sleep with her real quick and drop her like a bad habit… just like she did with you!
Wish you luck!
2006-10-24 17:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She is still in love, and you are a rebound.
Many times when a woman is hurt from a break-up, especially abandonment, she will latch on to someone for comfort...
But nothing is as comforting as the person who's left her..coming back.
2006-10-24 16:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by emrosscar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go - she's got to resolve her current relationship before she moves on to anything else which would remotely resemble a new one. Besides, don't you know? Even if someone's divorced they don't know what in the world they're doing for at least a year.
2006-10-24 16:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. What have you got to fight about in 2 days. After meeting you she realized what a jerk you were and went back where she belonged.
2006-10-24 16:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mailman Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. It may have been simply a moment of weakness that allowed her to be with you. If she really didn't care for her husband she wouldn't even be considering taking him back.
2006-10-24 16:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ithy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. It's been 2 days...if there's a history there, esp. with a married person, you shouldn't get in the way of that. If for some reason they do split and it's finalized, then persue it.
2006-10-24 16:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by bleeding sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for her.....if she goes 4 him....you can do better & it wasn't meant to be so you'll find someonewho'll be great 4 you. But anywayz, if she knows any better she'll know to stay with the guy that really loves her.
2006-10-24 17:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋