i'm a guy who sometimes orgasms a little too early than would like. i just started seeing someone new and definitely don't want that to happen especially since she says she doesn't orgasm quickly. i have pinched myself on purpose before during sex hoping the pain would distract from the pleasure. but hope someone has other ideas.
2006-10-24 09:51:54 · 18 answers · asked by texasgentleman1019 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she loves oral sex and i love doin it but then that gets me even hotter than she's getting me doin it and then i just wanna do it but even then she takes a while...haha...man sometimes in life you're the bug and other times you're the windshield LOL
2006-10-24 10:02:22 · update #1
After you get married, you can last all night. Try it.
2006-10-24 09:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have sex with her. If or when it happens tell her that this is what you are like because she over excites you because she's so fkin hot ! Tell her it's just a temporary thing and have a laugh about it if you can. I was like it in my early 20's but I soon got over it by tricking my mind. I would turn it around in my head and try to finish asap but the body has a cruel habit of doing the exact opposite of what your brain tells it to do so I would be at it for ages. Oh...and alcohol helped a lot as well...(a word of caution though...) dont depend on drink or you'll end up being able to sh&g like a stud but you'll have nobody to do it with cos you'll end up a raving alkie!!!
good luck my friend
2006-10-24 17:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by returnofkarlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a rings works best.. most women dont orgasm quickly but if you know what your doing you can bring her almost there with your hand and once she reaches that level you just do the deed and both of you should reach it together if your not sure there are books you can buy on making her reach her full potential..look for the butterfly techenic in it will show you how to message her clitoris that is the key to female masterbation .. most men think it is the vigina.. but really it is not a some men just have to told or shown i had to show a couple my self
2006-10-24 17:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey seriously try this
try masterbating right and when you get to climax stop just before cu m (you have to practice this) dont ejaculate and let your wang go soft a little. then get it back up and beat it until you almost cu m again and stop just before you ejack do this like 3 5 time ones a day after a while you will get less sensitive and last longer good luck
2006-10-24 16:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you might wont to do is get her to the point buy other mean like oral or finger play you will no with she is all most there by the sounds and the movement of her body than at that time you should enter her and you will both climax at the same time .. good luck and have fun..
2006-10-24 16:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m sorry you’re having that problem, but I’ve heard that sometimes in a new relationship it happens at first because you are nervous and are focused more on not “finishing” too soon, just relax and enjoy your self… before you get into it… try to get her more into it… foreplay..so it doesn’t seem that short.
2006-10-24 16:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try masturbating before you have your date. Or go into the bathroom shortly before having sex and masturbate. The idea is to release yourself so you will take you a little longer to c*m again.
2006-10-24 16:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont go on the date with a loaded gun...if you know what I mean...it usually helps...keke, Oh and if your already doin the deed and are about to blow ur wad, think of sports, or try doing some math in ur head...hahah I swear it works!
2006-10-24 16:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by tuffness9999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not something i am really comfortable talking about but i have heard that masturbating beforehand helps you last longer! also we are all aware of viagara that might help but see your Doc don't take my advice on that! also if your partner is not quick help her on with some foreplay, she will appreciate you for it!
Good luck!
2006-10-24 16:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by markiemania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend always tell me.i will pleasure you first before myself.just have a bonding mind with your girlfriend and make it a challenge to hold on longer.+believe me,your girlfriend will feel like a complete woman.and you will feel like a total man.
2006-10-24 17:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by sissypoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋