Recently after 2 months of dating i realise how shallow and materialitic my gf is. She's critical about everything i wear which makes me feel self-conscious, and she always shuts me out of events that happen in her life. I've talked to her about all of this but things have failed to improve. The only thing thats keeping me in there is the fact that i've slept with her and that attachment is still strong. Everytime she's busy she almost completely bars me off, and thats hurts everytime. I feel like i'm at a crossroads.........what do u guys advise?
2006-10-24 09:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to end it as soon as you can, the longer you wait the more difficult it will be. If you leave it long enough you may well find that she ends it anyway, and you would feel far worse if that were to happen.
2006-10-24 10:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same kind of thing and the truth to this problem is that we stay because we don't like being alone, so we try to handle the garbage and junk these people give us as not to be alone. You would be better off to seek a healtly loving relationship, even if it takes some time. You are wasting time you could be spending with someone who will truely love and respect you. Good luck
2006-10-24 16:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by poppyspock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im kind of in the same boat, you know it sucks, but the best thing for yourself is to break it off before you get more attached and go out and find some one new. Nothing makes you feel better like a girl that treats you better than the Ex
2006-10-24 16:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by HookemHorns21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its worth staying in the relationship, no matter how attached you are to the person.
My point in dating and having a boyfriend, or girlfriend, is to find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. I wouldn't recommend you staying with this type of person!
My advice is to leave her, and move on with your life, its always better to hurt for a limit of time, then to hurt all your life being miserable.
2006-10-24 16:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a girl who is nicer and more available. 2 months is not a long time and this girl has issues. You deserve somebody nicer.
Good Luck
2006-10-24 16:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I first read your question, I thought that 'sure it would be okay as long as your not looking for anything serious and are having fun then might as well stay with it' but when I read your story, I think it's time to move on. your g/f sounds mean and inconsiderate of you. you sound like an accesory for her to have on her arm at parties. I think its time to move on
2006-10-24 16:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd turn this into a sex-only relationship and move on. It seems thats all she seems to be good for.
2006-10-24 16:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're wasting your time and you need to let it go. What's the point of being with her if she makes you feel inadequate. You need to bounce man.
2006-10-24 16:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kenny M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many other fish in the sea.........dump her and go......
2006-10-25 10:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by yankee_sailor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋