Are Muslim men good lovers?

Question

I admit I have disdain for Muslims. I can't even imagine what it must be like to be forced into an arranged marriage. I can't imagine that if I don't bleed on my wedding night, I can be killed by my own father for shaming the family. ( Oh, if there are any Muslim men out there, a woman's Hyman is usually broken by time she reaches adulthood. Most girls do so by riding bicycles or using tampons.) Is using tapons against the teachings of the Quaran? You men are really bad news. Why do you treat your women like prisoners? Why do you always make them walk behind you? Why can't they worship beside you in the mosque? Why can't you evolve like the jews and christians and choose what text you want to believe in and which to ignore? Please don't call me a racist. Race is the color of your skin and one can't choose what they are born. Religon is a choice and I can say what I want regarding ones belief because they can be changed. Your religon is a choice and a stupid one I may add.

If there is a difference between cultural and religous Islam i dont' see it. I have known several Muslim men in college and all of them treated girls like crap. So, they're are good ones, I should hope so, but Why aren't more Muslims enraged by crap done by other Muslims. If it is a cultural thing then you can change it! All of the things I have mentioned have happened to Muslim women. I read news from many sources. Why do you still tolerate it or ignore its existance? Geez. This is the reason why I don't believe in religon. God made us and we made religon. It is all just philsophy, not LAW!

Answer 1

Muslims may be a bunch of retards, but Christians walk very close to them.

Answer 2

Wow, that wasn't really nice. Excuse me?!

First off, MUSLIMS AREN"T FORCED TO MARRY! FORCING TO MARRY SOMEONE IS A SIN! A father or mother can get HELL for forcing someone to marry. Read ABOUT THE RELIGION BEFORE YOU TELL LIES LIKE THAT! Arranged marriages come from the Indians. ASK THEM! That's not in Islaam. We marry for love, thank you very much.

Secondly, a woman does NOT GET KILLED IF SHE DOESN"T BLEED ON HER WEDDING NIGHT! yes, some people do this in some cultures, but it's not in ISLAAM! Again, those people go to hell. Men know that women may not bleed. The pathetic things that you're talking about don't even happen within good muslims. Just cultural people.

So before you want to generalise and say that Muslim men are wrong and bad, and how about you stop becoming ignorant and sort your Islamophobia out by researching into the religion and not what cultural people do!

GROW UP, already!

P.S. Earle D -- what you said below is so pathetic. Yes, Muslim men are allowed up to four wives, but believe me, 1. They get hell if they can't treat them equally, and 2. it's better than adultery which i'm assuming you have no problems with....

Answer 3

Any one who does not have much of an idea about Islam would agree to you, but others won't. Never believe in gossip or hear-say or what the media tells you and jump to conclusions, rather then to research or explore matters for yourself.
First no body gets killed for any reason by muslims, sane or insane like the one (Hyman) you have mentioned . Secondly women are allowed to go inb the mosque and pray. Thirdly women are not treated like prisnors or made to walk behind.
Islam is not a choice among the many, but is the truth, God's words/instructions are told to u, then it is your own choice if to accept Islam or not. On the day of judgement you won't be able to deny that God's word was not passed on to you.
For a better clarification please cheack out www.islamtomorrow.com

Answer 4

u are asking abt 2 islamic things
the 1st : the forced marriage
its not from islam
i think its a new idea to fight islam

the 2nd: the hijab

(as i understood) u are saying the hijab is making the woman like a prisoner

i wanna ask u
if u have a lot of money or if u have a treasure (just imagne)
will u put it as anything u put
no
u must go to the bank or any safe place to save it better
the same in islam
i think the old civilizations said a lot abt women
the romans , pharaohs , arab (b4 islam) , ............
used the woman like a toy or a shoe
really a shoe
it was sold like any goods
u can search the history of the egyptians for example
also the bible said the woman (Eve) is the reason that makes us in this earth
its an insult
isnt it ??
some also thought that the woman is a satan in the body of a human
& more insults

ISLAM wanna keep her as our treasure
also in koran u will see
the woman have a right like the man
no difference

i think if u read seera(the story of muhammad(pbuh)) u will see that the woman is honoured than the man in a lot of cases

its called in arabic : the men`s factory
bcoz she cares for her children till they become men

i think its a looooooooooong story to talk abt

if u wanna know more abt this
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Answer 5

why are u mixing Islam rules with some old bad traditions some cultures adopt?
in Islam...the woman has all the right to choose her husband ...the man has to treat his wife with respect and love otherwise he will be a sinner.
concerning the Hymen thing...yes both man and woman should not commit adultery or have sex before marriage...but anyone kills a girl in her wedding night cos she didn't bleed is a masochistic bastard and not Muslim.
and for God sake.....realize the difference between a culture and a religion!

Answer 6

i'm muslim but i can't tell if a muslim guy is a good lover, even if he is of other religion or no religion. I think religion has nothing to do with making a good lover although in islam, there is a teaching regarding sex, that if a man failed to satisfy his wife sexually, he sinned against God, then to his wife. I think the saying "ladies first" originated from islam because that's what to be done in sex. Let the wife be satisfied first before culminating the union.
regarding virginity, it depends from culture to culture. Personally, it's not a big deal for me even if my wife be a widower or a virgin as long as she is a God fearing woman and we get together well.
In church, temple or mosque, women and men for me should be segregated, it avoids distractions or show offs as other religions have encountered.

Answer 7

Your comments prove your utter ignorance about Islamic teachings.
You are relating actions of a few to the vastness of Islam. It's sad.
Anyway, you may contact some female Muslim participants here and ask your questions. The scenario you stated hardly happens in a Muslim's life.

If you are unaware of Islamic teachings and assert that its a "stupid one" that would only go back on you I may add.

Answer 8

will , what to say? Muslim men are so faithful and respectful , if you was in love with one of them , than why don't you be Muslim , its really wonderful to believe in only one God .
Islam is a great religion , it's not a bad religion as you hear every day .
any way , you are free, but being Muslim is the right thing
believe me , you won't be sorry

Answer 9

forced marriage is usually in indian culture for a indian girl to marry some one rich

Answer 10

Are they good lovers? Jeez, could you try to be a little MORE limited and bigoted? Let's all try to make gross generalizations about an entire culture! It'll be fun, right Melissa?

P.S. Way to disguise your little diatribe as a question! Nice!

Answer 11

i have never told this to anyone before, but i will to u ............ you are soooooooo STUPID!!! in every sense of that word. i am a muslim woman and i'm very proud to be one! good muslims treat their wives like queens co Allah created woman out of man's rib so she always stays close to his heart ......... any way - no point in explaining it to one ignorant creature like u r ....... i feel so sorry for u