This girl and l work together. We are both fulltime students. She has 3 jobs outside of school. We go to dif schools and I only work 1 job. We met at work, but i never really started talkin to her til the end of the summer. She was told that I was the "shy" guy, and her goal was to get me to be more open. We saw each other at a party before school started and talked all night. We have since talked online alot. We have been on 1 date, and she's been to my house once and ive been to her house once. I didnt make a move after either, but plan on doin so after the next date. We havent done much together for about 2 weeks, but it is partly due to her complicated schedule. Ive asked her if we are goin to do nething the past two weeks, but she said she cant b/c she has to work, or has plans with her friends. Our company Xmas party is comin up, which i plan on askin her to, but I dnt know if she is playin hard to get, or if she has lost interest. We have both admitted 2 havin a crush eachother
2006-10-24 09:25:03 · 10 answers · asked by joel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is also known as a tease/flirt.
2006-10-24 09:39:41 · update #1
Midterms are underway, and we are tryin to keep "us doin stuff" out of the company eye to avoid gossip.
2006-10-24 09:54:25 · update #2
I don't think she's lost interest, she just seems to be a busy girl.
If she's working three jobs, she has a tight schedule, then add her friends in the mix, when does the woman have time to sleep? Lol.
No, but seriously, I'm pretty sure she's still interested in you but right now she has, like you said, a complicated schedule. Your best bet is to ask her to the company party and then you two can spend time together, get to know more about eachother, and hopefully good things can come from there.
2006-10-24 09:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 22:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really want to know if she still into u, then u should call her and ask her. Maybe u can ask her to go eat something but if she is really busy then just talk to her on the phone. Tell her that u like her and u want to go on the date somewhere. I'm shore if she told u before that she likes u, she probably still do. But if something is different now then don't worry about, u will find somebody. But I still wish u good luck with her!!!
2006-10-24 09:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Martini5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to keep this girl at arms length, because if your trying to get a relationship goin with this girl, your just nieve! she works entirely toooo much to keep an interest in you. be real . she comes in contact with alot of people. 3 jobs, and you, its not goin down. now if you 2 want a romantic fling thing, than get it going, but anything more, would be null and void. you'll spend your time yearning to see her. you need to find another love interest and let the chips fall elsewhere. and you seem like a sincere gentleman, that should'nt be hard.
2006-10-24 09:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by JUBILI83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably isn't really ferling you now that you have admitted to having a crush on her. You need to back off and seem less interested, and let her make a move.
2006-10-24 09:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Gonzales 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she's just busy. since she admitted to crushing on you why dont you go for it and ask her to the Christmas party?
2006-10-24 09:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but sounds like it is over. If she really wanted to see you , she would make time. She's making time to go out with her friends isn't she?
2006-10-24 09:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a date for lunch that way she cant use an excuse.
2006-10-24 09:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by Luckys Charm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just seems to be too busy... give her some space... ask her out on that company party though
2006-10-24 09:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. Nothing to lose.
2006-10-24 09:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋