So, I'm 16, and ever since i was little i didnt quite "fit-it" with the typical lifestyle of a teenager. Even through all the bull I was still the eternal optimist. I hung out alot with my sisters so that caused me to be "overly feminine". Now i know i'm not gay, for its im attracted to females, and not males. Also, i dont think cause a person understands females means there gay. Now things are going wrong for me, girls i meet place me in the FRIEND portion of there heart and not the potential boyfriend part. I really despise that. 1 - because i feel like i'm a great guy, and a girl should be lucky to have me. But as my sisters say, i do things that arent "normal". Like, i come from a pretty awesome family, financly stable so i buy girls lavish gifts, i do alot of things kids my age dont do. I just wnat to know, how do i stop being the friend and start being the boyfriend. It happens constantly. I will only know if im gay, and im not, so why is this happening?
2006-10-24 09:21:31 · 7 answers · asked by Stevenson J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats a tough one. I guess try to flirt more! Be a man. Don't just talk to girls, flirt with them. Don't be too overly nice. You seem like a friend type or gay because you may be tooo nice. Stop trying so hard. Be yourself. Someone will see you for who you are.
2006-10-24 09:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you are about 25, put the nice guy somewhere else and start working on an a s s hole attitude. I'm telling you that for the next few years all those girls want is a bad boy. They won't care about a nice guy for a while. It's just the way we're built.
2006-10-24 16:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You continue to be you and the and you will find the right girl..don't let anyone change who you are...you sound like a real nice guy with a Big Heart, and it is good you know about what woman needs and how they feel, believe me not many guys really care to know..what and how females feel...good luck on your future...
2006-10-24 16:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I don't know what to say to this. How do you behave with these girls? I hope you are not shopping with them and getting pedicures, then there is a problem. Ask her out. Pick her up and take her to a nice place. Hold her hand some gestures will do, BUT don't go groping her or trying stick your tongue down her throat.
2006-10-24 16:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start hangong out with more guys and around girls try and be more masculine and even if you do get in the friend zone that is not the end of it most great relationships are built on friendship first lovers second!
2006-10-24 16:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by nealeyus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be one of those kind of guys girls like as a friend because you are a friend. some times it takes a while to see that friend as a boy Friend instead, don't give up if you see some one you want to date keep asking her
2006-10-24 16:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe what u need now is just to be there friend. sooner or later they will realize how great of a bf u could be.
2006-10-24 16:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋