I'm going out with this guy but i have heard that he only wants me for sex.... by his mate. what shall i do he doesn't seem the type to be like that...... shall i just ask him out straight or leave it ???
2006-10-24 09:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by xx-bbz-xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi huni thanks for my best answer re 'the friend thing'
As for this one- just see how it goes but dont let him or anyone pressure you into doing anything you dont want.Most people say they have done it but they havent.
And if he is just using you then you deserve much much better. Good luck!!
2006-10-24 09:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his mate? do you mean his freind? if so then his friend might be looking out for you. If you ask he will most likely not tell. Well you can date him for a while-a long while- and see if he begins to pressure you to having sex, or have u done it already? if so then u r screwed so leave it or just enjoy it while it last cuz if he is like that then you will know soon enough. listen to your heart/stomach- trust the GUT!!!
2006-10-24 16:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tanyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can ask him but if this is what he is after then he may just lie anyway and then you would just be wondering still. alternatively you could see how it goes and if he starts putting pressure on then you know the answer. if you have already started having sex then you could tell him you would like to start again and stop having sex and see what he does. if he wants the relationship to work he would accept the fact you want to take time to build it. if he gets in a strop then chances are you have your answer
2006-10-24 16:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it and see what happens his mate could just be jealous and trying to split you up, and if you say something you could rock the boat and end up splitting up anyway in which case the mate wins. if you just carry on like normal and then it starts to feel like that's what hes after then ask him otherwise forget it and carry on having fun with this guy.
2006-10-24 16:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by abbie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becareful of a 3rd person in the relationship interfering, the best mate is either jelous of his friend spending time with u or he is inlove with u
2006-10-24 17:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by leterinbe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you ask you know what he is going to say ' no of course not, i really like you and you are so different bla bla bla' so just trust your instincts. You can tell by the way he treats you.
2006-10-24 16:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by pretty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want a good time go for it but if u want more just be careful
2006-10-24 16:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by The Cerebral Assassin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just wait to see how things go?if he comes on strong early tell him to do one
2006-10-24 16:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by robert h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it. Maybe his friend is messing with your head.
2006-10-24 22:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by johnjoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
refuse sex, then note the reaction, if he respects you then its love ifhes impatient hes not worth it.
2006-10-24 16:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋