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my youngest daughter is 9 months old, do you think its to soon to try now or should we just go for it?i know im not certain to get a boy.

2006-10-24 09:12:12 · 24 answers · asked by nicola r 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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My kids are one year a part. IF you are currently healthy, go for it!!!!! Good Luck!!

2006-10-24 09:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Scientist 3 · 0 0

Hi there nicola well congrats on your 2 little angels my partner is expecting and friday we get to know the sex(guess what i want?)
really what you need to ask yourself is how can or even if you can manage, underrstandably you have a 9month old and yes it does technically take another 9 months before the birth of baby number3
How old is your eldest? how much have you guys got an influence on her life? is she happy with you and your partner and her little sister?
What about the newborn? remember your youngest may still want for some attention, she may not be used to you taking your attention to the newborn?
Ask yourselves are you both ready for whatever tantrums may result? its also easy to say our youngest will be a year and a half, may i just say i have two already, my eldest daughter leads my son astrsay and he has just got into the terrible twos, add to that the dangers of what he likes to copy from his sister its a constant days fun to keep them both happy and safe.
im not trying to scare you off ill just say you as parents of two the same should know now that plans never run the way they should with babies.
my personal choice i wished now we would have waited til our boy was full time in nursery or school
but i guess we will learn.
Good luck whatever your choice
xx

2006-10-25 01:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by Gary L 2 · 0 0

My son is 6 months old and i would love to try for a little girl but the time isn't right for us at the moment, as i have only just gone back to work and we are waiting till our income increases (when boyf is finished at collage and gets a promotion) so we are waiting for a few years!

2006-10-24 23:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by x Danielle x 3 · 0 0

I think you should start thinking about it after you youngest is atleast one year.
My wife did follow some "Chinese Calender" (dont know much about it, but google should tell you). It has gives you the exact days (like 5th/6th/7th day after your Mestruation etc.) when if you do intercourse you can have a boy/girl.
Good Luck - its a little more than 50-50 probability

2006-10-24 09:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Hardy 2 · 0 0

If that's what you BOTH want and you think that you can cope then go for it. But you could end up with a lot of girls before a boy comes along.
At least when your family grows up, you'll still be quite young, so that's a bonus.

2006-10-24 09:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Julie B 2 · 0 0

If you can support another one emotionally, physically, and financially, then I don't see why not.

There are no guarentees you will get a boy though. You can look into the Shettles method (I think that is it). It is a trying to concieve method for concieving a specific gender. Worked for my friend when she wanted a girl.

2006-10-24 09:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by totsandtwins04 3 · 0 0

i have 4 kids my oldest is 8 and my youngest is 7 month it is very hard work but nobody can tell u what to do

2006-10-24 09:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by angie 3 · 0 0

Good luck getting a boy!

But if you end up with an army of Girls in 10 years of trying for a boy, good luck with the tampon bills!!

2006-10-24 09:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by hoppo 2 · 0 1

I'd wait a few more months. It'll be extremely hard to chase after a toddler when you're 9 months pregnant. And it'll be even harder to chase after a toddler with a newborn.

2006-10-24 09:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 0 0

yes .I think itd too soon. Rest your body a little and wait until your youngest girl is about a year.

2006-10-24 09:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by viddy 2 · 0 0

go for it!! as long as you are physically well i dont see a problem,ive just given birth to my third child but with a 3 yr gap between my last two,we want another and have discussed trying soon so yeah,go for it!!GOOD LUCK!

2006-10-24 09:26:49 · answer #11 · answered by lisa k 2 · 0 0

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