Don't let it get to you (them?) Everyone develops at their own pace and while the big butt girls go and get fat in high school she will be an attractive slim girl who will eventually fill out and be the envy. In the mean time you (she) can do other things to help make herself feel good. Some highlights in her hair, new earrings etc - just small things that make her feel good - dont try stuffing bras and the such - it sets you up for embarassment when it gets found out. Keep your head up and know that you are a beautiful girl now and will be a beautiful woman one day - still very young
2006-10-24 09:17:32
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answered by ice_princess 3
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what??? she or you...is only 11! you havent even hit puberty yet so tell them to shut up and just ignore them. you friends body isnt at the stage of puberty. unless the kids are older?? it shouldnt matter. i was flat chested and didnt have a butt till i went into highschool. noone teased me. everyone had their breasts and everything. your friend shouldnt care what others think. and how old is this boy who is attracted to big butts? 11 yr olds shouldnt like butts or boobs or anything you all are still children! so calm down. shes not at the point of puberty yest and wont be for a few more years. some people just develop all of that before others. everyoine is different. she shouldnt be getting teased. so tell eveyine whos teasing her to stop being immature and be quiet.
2006-10-24 09:22:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Too much emphasis on the physical...not enough on the intellectual.
If a boy is only attracted to a girls body and NOT her mind, then the boy is NOT worth knowing or associating with.
If the girl ONLY wants to be seen as having an attractive body, then she should get the hell out of private school and stop wasting her parents money.
There are a lot of plain-looking girls who would die to get a good education and improve their life.
A final parting shot: 11-years-old is WAY too young to be hung up on physical looks.
A typical pre-teen girls body is not ready to blossom in the right places for a few more years.
Deal with what God gave you, hold your head up high and associate with people who prize brains over beauty...because your brains will last you a lifetime and your body will sag in about 20 years from now.
2006-10-24 09:19:11
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answered by docscholl 6
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11 year olds haven't hit the peak of puberty to have developed those areas. I wouldn't worry because she'll fill out soon enough and since every female has a different body then you have to expect you won't look like everyone else.
I'm sorry that 'this girl' cares so much about what other people think. 11 or 31 she needs to just live her life and be happy and disregard mean people.
2006-10-24 09:35:32
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answered by 4eyed zombie 6
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this person dont want a big butt cos she'll wish she had a small one when she gets older,and shes only 11 so of course shes gonna be flat chested! as for the boy,i guess he likes looking a big butts cos he thinks he's looking in the mirror.
2006-10-24 09:21:32
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answered by st4aus 1
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Hi,
Lots of ppl i know are like dat... Im like dat.... The person should. Ignore the boys, at 11, they only exist tease.(least da ones i know)... Unless they get a sudden outta nowhere rise in da matrurity levels,the person cant do nutin but ignore em... Course, i enjoy kicking and punching better.... If the guy is attarcted to girls like dat, he isnt worth going after. He may be cute but if he only focuses on looks, hes not even worth the persons time.
2006-10-24 09:19:03
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answered by Anonymous
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on no account! all people gets their sessions at diverse cases. a pal of mine did no longer get it till she grew to become into sixteen. As for the boobs - they are going to possibly nevertheless strengthen plenty, quite considering you haven't any longer had your era yet (meaning greater surges of hormones are coming quickly). yet despite the fact that in case you do no longer - do no longer subject. I nevertheless have a flat chest and that i went by way of puberty years in the past. i grew to become into self-extensive wakeful in the beginning up, yet then you definitely comprehend you are able to placed on lots greater effective than females with extensive boobs. You look greater athletic and toned to boot and you will in lots of cases get away without bra. provide it yet another twelve months or so till now you get frightened, yet whilst it does trojan horse you that lots merely pass to your loved ones well being practitioner and ask him/her if there is something to be nerve-racking approximately.
2016-11-25 02:32:28
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answered by ? 4
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Wait two or so years for PUBERITY. 11 yr olds with a full chest and a nice butt is quite rare...
2006-10-24 09:19:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Aren't all 11 year olds flat chested?
2006-10-24 09:14:48
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answered by Anonymous
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The boy she likes obviously is in love with someone who is not 11. Good luck to him. When I was eleven, the girls who had boobs were fat. Trust me - that guy will like your friend better when she's older. He won't want a fat girl - his dates will become expensive.
2006-10-27 12:28:39
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answered by Anonymous
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