my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4months and we see eachother pretty much everyday. I am afraid that he is taking me for granted beause he knows I am always there.Is this unhealthy?
2006-10-24 09:07:09 · 9 answers · asked by michelleleestonge 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think no matter how long y'all have been together it is unhealthy to see each other everyday.....then he knows that you will always be waiting for him, and that way he has a little bit of control over you... I think that you should see each other about every 2 days or even every other day. it will make him realize that you have a life outside of him, and that he can have one outside of you as well.....and you will also have more to talk about and fight less, because you won't be getting sick of eachother. good luck
2006-10-24 09:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend here at school and we live in the dorms not together of course but we have been together for 3 months and before I started school at another place but still in the dorms we see a little less of eachother. It really isn't healthy to see eachother all the time, but sometimes you can't help it and don't want to be away from your significant other. I know for me it's hard cuz I hate being by myself without him with me. But when you are apart it makes the feeling of seeing eachother much more exciting. Much like when you don't have sex for a while... when you have it again it's like the best thing ever.....ha ha only joking on that one.
2006-10-24 16:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by girl_is_depeche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is unhealthy to see each other everyday. You'll grow tired of each other. See each other maybe once a week, and talk on the phone no more than 3 times a week, because it is also unhealthy to talk everyday for hours since you'll run out of things to talk about.
2006-10-24 16:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you feel this way? Do you like seeing him everyday? What type of behavior is making you feel that he is taking you for granted? What are his and your motives? Are you guys on the same page? What is your heart telling you?
2006-10-24 16:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by blacknubianqueen2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never had a man and don't know how to get one, ask him , at least he stayed for 4 months, mine stayed for 8 days , never had longer, no i am not ugly, in fact too pretty, good luck mamma, i will be looking for answers myself!
2006-10-24 16:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not letting you have your space and do what you want to do or vice versa, then yea, it's unhealthy. otherwise, it's great. i wish i could spend every day with my boyfriend!
2006-10-24 16:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it unhealthy if it is just seeing? Unless you have unprotected sex everyday.....
2006-10-24 16:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by jemmie_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so. of course it depends.
i like spending time with im
2006-10-24 16:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-10-24 16:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋