OK...My boyfriend likes to have anal sex...and he wants to hear me cry...for some reason! I don't understand this! Could someone please help? Also...I find it hard to cry...for some reason. So...yea...if somone could give me a DECENT explanation...that would be most helpful! Thanks!
2006-10-24 09:05:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a freak.
You should never have to cry during sex unless your just so happy. And that's even a little freaky from a guys perspective but whatever.
I don't think there is a reasonable explanation.
Accept it or move on. I'd recommend moving on.
2006-10-24 09:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 02:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the freak and maybe you would be able to have normal feelings such as crying. You could cry about why you did not kick him to the curb sooner. *Most times I don't respond that way but what is intimacy really becoming>?
This is a control issue with your boyfriend and don't let him continue to do this to you. Not in the cards of a happy relationship. Let the freak go.
**You know what I just went back and read your profile myself. You can't serve two God's. Who did you write your profile for yourself? Because the jig is up...definetely not the girl next door. To think I was feeling a liitle sorry for you being abused.
See this is why women are getting bad reps because of little girls in women's bodies playing all these games. Good Luck Stella
2006-10-24 09:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first: is this something you're willing to try?
Secondly, the sound of you crying out would pleasure him because it makes him feel in control. I'm guessing your boyfriend probably finds it very arousing to hear resistance in your voice.
Try doing some naughty role play first to ask him questions about exactly what he wants you to do, wants to do to you and see if you can get his approval by making sounds like crying out a little, moaning, oohing and aahing during "regular" sex.
If you're still not comfortable with the idea of anal sex and/or the crying out loud part, tell him and work with him to find another alternative you both like.
Sex is fun - and is full of options ;)
2006-10-24 09:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gets off on inflicting pain. He's a sadist. He needs to get some help. I'm serious. If he doesn't get that from you, he'll bottle it up and get weirder and crazier. Either that, or if you're into it, then break out the toture devices and role play some of that.
Sounds pretty wacky to me, but there are people who just like that.
2006-10-24 09:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boy friend is a bit whacked in the head. I think he enjoys being in control of you, thats why he likes to hear you cry. I'm guessing your not ok with that?
2006-10-24 09:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's weird. Tell him that you don't want to cry, that it doesn't make you feel like crying then maybe he won't find it so appealing and will try something else.
2006-10-24 09:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be in power he wants to know he is dominating you. Its a fantasy of his just try and fullfill it every now and again. But do it without him telling you to do it. Its a male thing to do with power no big thing it actually sounds fun i think i will ask the old lady to give it a whirl thanks
2006-10-24 09:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god girl get out of that relationship.Anal sex is lovely but he obviously wants a power trip as if he's hurting you.Good luck hun.
2006-10-24 09:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give the man what he wants.
If you can't cry from taking it in the pooper... tell him it's because his c0ck's too small... maybe he'll cry.
2006-10-24 09:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋