ok i have this boy friend and he wants me to tell him that i love him.........we've only been together for 3 days......idk what to say when he tells me this??? what to do?
2006-10-24 08:57:25 · 18 answers · asked by pink_luver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't say it if you aren't ready to.
2006-10-24 08:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by el Rocky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's moving to fast for anyone not just you. Just let him know that you've only been together for 3 days, and that even tho you don't feel love right now that you do really like him and that love will soon grow. But he can't push you. Just let him know that you don't feel comfortable saying "I love you" and not meaning it... If he really cares for you and understands it all, he should respect that.
Love is a huge thing. You can't push it or pressure it. Or it will never come.
Good Luck.
2006-10-24 16:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him anything until you're ready. saying "I love you" to anyone is a very special thing. even if he doesnt admit it, he'd probably value you saying it a lot more if you actually feel it in your heart and are ready to say it. you could say something like "i really care about you too" and if you want him to take things a little slower you could tack an "but lets not take things too fast, ok?" at the end of it
2006-10-24 16:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!! guys that say that after 3 DAYS are crazy! soon enough, he's gonna ask you to do more stuff than just saying "i love you,". guys that say that that fast really dont know what love is. you really need to sit down and think about things and how fast this kid is moving. and tell him that you want to take things slow...really slow. let him know that you like him, but you need time to "love him..."
2006-10-24 16:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by chevellechic08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to avoid the question talk to him and tell him that you dont think its appropriate to have to say that especially since you have only been together for 3 days. If he is saying i love you already chances are he doesn't. so give it some time and talk it over with him. If he really does love you then he will understand.
2006-10-24 16:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by jake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 days is not long enough for u to love anyone. if u actually told him u love him, it prolly wouldn't be the truth. wait till y'all know each other and see if he's the right guy 4 u. then you'll kno whether or not u can love him.
2006-10-24 16:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not in love w/ him then tell him, it's been 3 days he's moving way 2 fast
2006-10-24 20:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you aren't ready to say those words. because to you they mean alot and you want to use them when the time is right. you really like and and think a great deal of him but aren't ready to say those words.
2006-10-24 16:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by *~*Ash*~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh God...Is this a question that you want people to answer online??And the funniest thing is that people do reply pretending they "share your problem"...
Grow up and to your boyfriend just say "stop it, this question pisses me off, I will say it when I want to say it!" Simple isnt it...
Happy now?
2006-10-24 16:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by D-tale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if you told him that you love him THIS SOON, you wouldn't be telling him the truth.
Tell him to SLOW DOWN or he's gonna scare you off!
2006-10-24 15:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need more time to think about this because you've been with him for 3 days.
2006-10-24 16:01:39 · answer #11 · answered by pinkygirl m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋