Have you ever loved someone enough?

Question

To let them go. Sorta like tossing your hands in the air and giving up and just realizing that ................. your love wasn't returned, it was a battle only to be lost and so, not to be bothered with a fight. Have you ever just sadly walked away from someones life knowing there were no other choices, and all other options were exhausted and had ran out? Have you? Ever?

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

I don't think that I loved someone that much (if you talk about relationships gf/bg), I suppose that I can do this for my baby brother! But you know, I started to love someone so much, even if I met him few months ago (Last September), I really love him, it's weiurd, I have never been in true love before, and I think in few months, if everything goes well, may be if we'll spend a year or more together, i'll love him that much! and i'll be able to do this...but you know, nobody has a gun here where I live except the police men, and they are not allowed to use them anytime so,...u know,...:-))

Answer 3

Yes! It was the hardest thing I ever did, BUT I am so glad I did! I wish I would have done it a lot sooner! Sometimes you have to look at yourself & what you can change in your life to make it better for you. You deserve the best & there is no reason you have to put up with someone who is undeserving of your love. You are better off alone than with a person who doesn't return your love.

I am far better off for it. I have found a much better person who respects me, trusts me, appreciates me, tells me how beautiful I am, & truly loves me.

Answer 4

In some way,yes I've been in a similar situation!I walked away from a relationship i had 5 years with someone because i saw that i was giving more than receiving!He didn't understand me and the fights were killing the relationship we had!And one day i decided that i couldn't stand this,no more.And i left!

Answer 5

Yes, i have although it was the hardest thing i have ever done and it was totally a last resort, i had tried everything to make it work and although it was hard at the time it has been the best thing for both of us

Answer 6

Yes.For many more reasons as well.By leaving allowing her a better life with someone else. And yes it still hurts once in a while even now after 17 years.

Answer 7

I never loved him. But I liked him and tried all I could. The relationship was still pretty new... Thank God I didn't wait that long for him to change or else I would've just wasted my time.

To me, I waited long enough.
And I put enough effort into it with nothing in return.

Answer 8

read the book When women love too much" bottom line your a victim-and you feel rejected but the guy Rejected Jesus and true love to use you and walk away-u seem to have denial so this will make me the enemy-but your a princess be the best you can be and dont worry-david in His amazing grace John chapter 3 salvation to be true in heavenly and earthly love in that amazing grace&thanks

Answer 9

Yes and I didnt see it before but it was probably the best decision to make. I still love them after so many years but its just because all of the happy memories we did share.

Answer 10

In a relationship no, but with my Mother yes. I love my Mom however I felt that the relationship we shared was not a healthy one for neither of us (to put it mildly) so I felt that letting her go and giving our Mother/Daughter relationship was the best for me especially since the love I had for her was not reciprocated.

Answer 11

Yes. In fact, I loved someone enough to let them go even though we loved each other. It's a long story and it takes a long time to heal, but it's possible to love again.