is getting marryed a good idea, if you are in love
2006-10-24 08:31:40 · 41 answers · asked by Pansy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
if your asking that question a guy already got you as a free cow-and is using you-a true guy that will be the first thing he will find out is that your seriously desire to be married one day-otherwise its just a bunch of bull-gettin free milk-be real seek a true love =someone that would desire to marry you and not use you. david in his amazing grace
2006-10-24 08:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends where you want to get with the marriage thing. Getting married just because you're in love is not a good idea. You have to have other conditions fulfilled as well... For example, maturity, responsibility, being able to live on your own, provide and share... etc... lots of other conditions. TO go just on 'the luv' thing is a wrong idea. What happens if you fall out of luv? Commitment is one thing stronger than a feeling. Contract? Not so fine. Goals are the fuel. So what do you want to accomplish by getting married? If you are able to live with the answer to this question, then you are able to make your own choice.
And BTW, it's married not marryed.
2006-10-24 08:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research shows that people who wait and get married after 28 have the fewest divorces. Also, go through a pre-marital counseling course. These are offered free at most large churches. You'll be amazed at how these courses bring out differences and potential problem areas you never thought of, and if you two can resolve these issues, you're ahead of the game. The trained instructor will guide you through the course and issues.
A friend of mine and her boyfriend went through such a course, she ended up breaking up. This was good because she was "way ahead" of him, and if they got married it would have been a disaster. Then she met an older guy and ended up marrying that person. These courses are great, they are designed by professionals with the lessons learned from many failed marriages.
2006-10-24 08:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by zoomat4580 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK well if you have to ask the question if its a good idea then I would say NO!! If you are in love with each other then it would just be only natural to know that it is a good idea. So if the doubt is on your mind wait. You guys are together now and if you are meant to be together then it will be, dont rush into marriage for the wrong reasons. Theres more to marriage then love. It takes alot of strength, loyalty, honesty and so on.
2006-10-24 08:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting married is a good idea, if you are really in love and not just infatuated. Get married for the right reasons and it should last forever.
2006-10-24 08:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by harleychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes more than love to make a marriage! Just ask anybody who's been married for more than about 2 years!
2006-10-24 08:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love, if you can accept the other person's flaws, and if you both have the same views (or at LEAST very similar) on parenting, money, where to live, careers, etc., then yes. Marriage is very hard, alot of compromise, and some arguing. You have to learn to think about someone other than yourself before making big decisions.
2006-10-24 08:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're in intense college. while i replaced into in intense college, a number of my acquaintances observed how they wanted toddlers soooo undesirable. i did no longer get it. it is unlike quite a few of them have been given pregnant in intense college or something, all of them waited till after college (and marriage). yet I particular as heck did no longer want a toddler at that age. i'm 29 and don't truly decide for one now, the two, nonetheless I did get married. you would be able to or won't replace your recommendations approximately marriage. the two way is wonderful, truly, as long as your companion consents. yet sometime, you would be able to fulfill a guy who truly rocks your international and desires to make a dedication to you. You by no potential understand! Stranger issues have befell.
2016-10-02 22:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*marriage
Well if you feel obligated after a certain amount of time after being with a person and if in your heart that you are ready for that commitment.
If you are financially stable. Go for it then! Who's or what is stopping you?? I mean just because you are in love doesn't mean that you HAVE TO get married. Its just my opinion.
2006-10-24 08:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i dont know i think if somebody plans to get marry i think they should live together for at least 3 years to see if they can deal with eachother. and eachothers family then if both have agree to get marry then thats perfect. cause now and days people take marriage as a joke.
2006-10-24 08:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋