My 21 year old cousin is sitting right here next to me, she want's to know what the signs are to look for and know if her man is cheating. I'm trying to stay out of it, because I feel like if a woman feel's it's happening then 9 times out of 10 it is happening. But you guys always have such good answers so can you help her out with this one. Thank you all in advance..
2006-10-24 08:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. Bossy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Signs of Cheating
Recognize the signs of cheating. These five signs of cheating will save you time and heartache.
Loss of Sex Drive
Unless there is another cause of stress (i.e., difficult assignment at work), then a sudden loss of interest in sex may indicate your loved one is getting it elsewhere.
Defensiveness
A cheating partner often feels bad deep down and this guilt can come out via defensiveness or blame placed on you. Be on the look out for signs of aggressiveness from your partner.
Host of Excuses
They may seem cliche, but comments about needing to work late, having to take a business trip, or needing to unexpectedly meet with a client, can all be signs of cheating.
Telephone Hang-Ups
If your partner's new liaison is bold enough to call your home number, he or she may hang up if you answer, instead of your partner.
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Be on the look out for frequent hang-ups.
Gifts Out of Nowhere
Besides defensiveness, your cheating partner may try to throw you off track by being extra nice. Flowers, chocolate, and other gifts, especially if they are typically uncommon, could be a sign of infidelity.
Please do keep in mind that none of these signs are guarantees of a cheating partner. They are only indicators, and the more of them you see, the higher the chances something is going on. Communicate with your partner if you feel something is going on, and you'll give your relationship the best shot at surviving over the long haul.
2006-10-24 08:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by 'Cause I'm Blonde 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
when your man is cheatting baby girl U will know. How u will know just lil things he will do like come home late, dont call, dont want u to look in his phone,dont come home at all( and the thing he say for that is Baby I spent a night over my boys house) if you smell something that you havent normaly smellet on him. So baby girl you know what u do is u call once and than listen to the backround listern to how quited he is and how quit the background is, start a topic about something anything and u listen if hes paying attetion. Baby girl this is alla thr signs that u look for is you want to know if your man is cheating or not Dont be no fool now all you have to do is listen and learn, and -girl you will find out, because whats in the dark will come to the light
2006-10-24 15:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Pansy c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your partner seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
Your partner seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically non-existent.
Your partner has a low self-esteem.
You notice your partner has a sense of confusion about self.
You partner has become lazy, especially around the house.
You can't get your partner to communicate with you.
Your partner gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.
Your partner is suddenly more attentive than usual.
Your mate is working longer hours at work.
Your partner is dressing nicer, looking nicer.
You notice charges on credit card statement that don't make sense.
Your partner is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.
You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.
Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.
He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
You can't even get your mate to fight with you.
You feel as if you are being avoided.
Your partner abandons religious faith.
Your partner seems more secretive.
2006-10-24 15:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he comes home with lipstick on his collar,
he calls you by a different name frequently.
He relates a story about something you have done together but in fact you have not.
He has "blank spots" of time that he can't account for and gives crappy excuses why or his friends screw up on verifying his wherabouts. Either that or he was kidnapped and probed by aliens and is too ashamed to admit it :)
You find credit card reciepts in his pockets for places hes been to on dates and times you know you weren't together (for resaurants).
He comes over to you smelling like another girl's perfume or you smell/taste pussy on his breath or dick.
The question is not IF he is but WHY he is. If you are fat or ugly then it is YOUR fault and not his and it is you who needs to change in order for him to stop having sex with other girls (If you are fat or ugly it is not "cheating" because then it is justified).
Before you do anything as far as verification goes, you better be certain because if he is not cheating and catches you looking through his things or constantly grilling him about his whereabouts then he will likely dump you.
so before you really confront him make sure you:
a) are not fat and/or ugly
b) 100% certain in based on REASONABLE things.
2006-10-24 15:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doensn't pick up his phone sometimes now and he did before.
If he refuses to pick up certain calls in front of you.
He works late a lot suddenly.
He cancels things with you because his boss or his cousin or his buddy asked him to do something for them. Happening more than once.
He doesn't f*ck you as hard as he did.
He can't get it up now sometimes, after he comes back from "work"
When he shoots his wad, nothing barely comes out.
He come back from work and he seems guilty about something, treating you ESPECIALLY nice.
You find another cel phone in his car, hidden.
2006-10-24 15:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she knows he's cheating and just doesn't want to accept the fact that he's cheating on her and can't or doesn't want to break up with him because she still has feelings for him or is in denial.
2006-10-24 15:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ben R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he insists on showering before he lets you touch him. (trying to get that skank stank off of him....) if he acts shady about telling you where he's going or who he's with, or if he gets really defensive when you ask him about that stuff.... if he turns his phone off or starts "forgetting" it all the time when you're together (doesn't want you to see when she's calling...) or if he never answers the phone when you call him (honestly NEVER not just once in a while). most of all tho, if you have that feeling, then he probably is. either that you just flat out don't trust him. either way, you should probably bail on the relationship.
2006-10-24 15:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its always good to go with your first instict but, what specifically has he done? ... ...dont make excuses for things he has done that dont make sense but, if you are just one of those paranoid chicks then, you may want to consider taking time out for yourself and seeing what exactly you want out of a guy before commiting to a realationship....good luck
2006-10-24 15:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he all of a sudden very caring, bringing gifts and wants more sex? mmmmm that's definitely a sign in my book.
2006-10-24 15:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by netslaveone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A recurring yeast infection is a good sign.
2006-10-24 15:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by ssbecak 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋