while talking a friend she asked if watching a porno and pleaseing yourself cheating...I say no, but her argument was watching the DVD while think about whos in it is cheating.
2006-10-24 08:28:47 · 33 answers · asked by matchbox 78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for practical purposes, please consider 'cheating' as having actual physical contact or something (decide to which degree though, there is a world between kissing on the cheek and full-on, well, you know) because if cheating starts in thoughts and fantasy we are all well and truly ******.
2006-10-24 08:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It isn't cheating. And if she's so insecure, you may want to leave.
What happens when you go to the beach/pool and there's a million girls in bikini's? Is that cheating?
Truth is this could turn into a much larger fight.
There are a lot of women out there and they all dress to attract men. But when this works they get upset at us. It isn't our fault the girl accross the room is dancing on the bar topless. If some dude was walking down the street naked would she not look?
Anyway, bottom line: Not Cheating.
2006-10-24 08:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching porno can help you keep from cheating... ...so the hell what if you are thinking about the person in the porno.... ...it makes for a great reason to be more enthused about who you are with... ...i know my man watches porno and i love it cause i know he's not out catching some std from some whore and our sex is amazing!!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 08:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitley makes some people uneasy when the one that is supposed to be interested in them is watching other people in porn... But it really is a turn on and it definitley isnt cheating.... You should try to get this person into watching some porn with you and maybe having some fun with it.... making one of your own?
2006-10-24 08:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by kinkttn15fk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is such nonsense. Is she a born again? DVD's of this nature can and are used for pleasure and it is not cheating. Quite often a DVD can teach you about your own desires which you can than share with your lover.
2006-10-24 08:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not cheating. It's like say that pleasing yourself in general is cheating.
2006-10-24 08:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by randomidentification 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you are thinking or fantasizing having sex with someone else than your partner, yes it is cheating. It is called being emotionally unfaithful. All that answered and said no including yourself, would be furious if they discovered that their partner even fantasize about having sex with someone else. If you pleasure yourself with only your partner on your mind, then it is not cheating.
2006-10-24 08:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe porn is "cheating".....but if there is an agreement between 2 people that they won't watch it then that should be respected. Not that I think at all that one person should say what the other can do as far as porn goes. The person should feel lucky it is just porn!
2006-10-24 08:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by })i({ J and D's Momma })i({ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not cheating. Besides, who says you are thinking about the person in the movie? You could be fantasizing about being with your beloved.
2006-10-24 08:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not really cheating.....
Just having fun with yourself while watching it...
2006-10-24 08:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋