Ok well here it is, i have been talk to this guy for about 2 months, maybe even more and well he have been hanging out like every weekend, but not in public.
When we are alone he is such a sweet heart, telling me that i am sooo beautiful, we have sex all the time, and dont get me wrong its great, but once we leave he really dont call me, he text's me telling me that he miss's me and that he was thinking about me all day and that he wants to see me and hold me and well all the good stuff, but he wont call, and when he does call me he is either drinking or just plane out drunk. So i need some advise on weither he is just using me for a piece of booty or does he really like me. Oh and when we hang out i dont pay for nothing he pays for every thing the Hotel Room, the drinks, and he gives me gas money.
So be honest, I can take it. Mature advice ONLY ! ! ! ! no lil kid stuff.
2006-10-24 08:28:05 · 19 answers · asked by Sweet Momma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a guy who will hold your hand in public,and open doors.Most of all who can't stand being away from you.Call hell,wait in the rain to see your face.If he shows up when you can't have sex,keep him.Dump this loser know.
2006-10-24 08:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
I am the type of person who goes with my gut feeling which is a woman's intuition, all women have this. The thing I would believe is that he is living a doulble life. It could be several things when I mean double life, he could be married, or even have somebody that he is serious;y involved with on the side. Honestly, i think you are being used because you are the person seemingly to me the one that he goes to to make him feel good. Men cheat all the time but, it's a reason for that, the reason is the other woman makes him feel the way he wants to feel at that moment. Maybe in his other life he's not getting what you are giving him. JUst think about what you are doing if you see yourself getting hurt the end the situation but, watch out for signs of crazyness you might have the good stuff girl. If your fine with this situation then hey whatever floats your boat but, be aware of what's going on.
2006-10-24 08:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by lottab2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be gentle I will say that all you are to him is a bed buddy. If you've been together for two months but never in public, then he doesn't want a serious or traditional boy/girl relationship with you. The things he is paying for, hotel room, drinks, gas are all to his benefit. The room for the obvious reason, gas to ensure that you arrive at the hotel and drinks to keep you happy while he gets what he wants from you. You deserve better. Stop letting him treat you like that. Break it off with him, no matter if he becomes angry, pleads, begs, promises or cries. You deserve a guy who will cherish you.
2006-10-24 08:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jeana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met any of this man's friends, family, or been included in any aspects of his life other than sharing in intimate moments? If not, you have your answer and you're in denial. If he has, it could be that he isn't very fond of phoning (he does text after all). I can't explain it, but I have an aversion to phone calls. I don't mind chatting away online or face to face, but I generally use the phone only for practical--not leisure--purposes. Phones are impersonal and a hindrance, to me at least. I hate them.
Even if he *is* just using you as a booty call, it sounds like you're not just giving it away--he *is* paying for various things. Sure, it does bear slight correlation to prostitution, but grown adults do it all the time under the guise of 'dating'. Have fun, and if he doesn't seem to take you seriously outside the bedroom, tit for tat. Have fun, be safe, and keep your eyes peeled for someone/thing of more substance.
2006-10-24 08:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look he is probably just using you he might have a different girl every night he could be just a plane nice young man but if you have any doubts on him cheating and using you like a peice a meat i would dump him if he doesn't call but text's that could mean to things he has no time to pick up the phone and call u or he just thinks he has to say all that stuff every once and a while but if i were u i would dump him like a sack a potatoes
2006-10-24 08:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by GREATGRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just stick with him for sometime and find out for yourself,he sounds nice, just because he doesn't call doesn't mean there is no potential in this relationship, none of us here know the guy, so we can't give u an accurate answer, what do you think?? do u see a future for the two of u? Give it time, a lot of things become clear with time.
2006-10-24 08:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was in the same kind of relationship for about 2 years, I accidentally got pregnant and haven't seen him since I told him and refused to get an abortion. I thought I loved him....I am much better without him and so is his son. You worth more than that.
2006-10-24 08:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by dani82art 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really liked you, he would take you out in public, let you meet his friends things like that. Dont get me wrong he may have feelings for you, but probably not as strong as the feelings you have for him.
2006-10-24 08:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by sillysally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my darling. . . he is just getting a piece of booty. He is treating you like some whore - paying to get you drunk, paying for a place to get his piece, and he's nice enough to pay for the gas in your car that got you there. Don't let someone use you like some piece of useless meat!! Get rid of him you deserve better!
2006-10-24 08:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by happygolucky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So he pays for everthing to get sex from you; wow, isn't he wonderfull.
Girl of course he's just using you for sex. If that's what you want then there's no problem, but if you want something more...well he doesn't sound like the one for you.
2006-10-24 08:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by snickers808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋