okay...i love this guy with all of my heart!! he have dated for a year and his mom doesnt want us to date so she told him to break up with me and he also thinks that i cam bossy!! i would do anyhting in my ppwer to get him back in my arms!! he still comes around ALL that time and tells me that he loves me and he kisses me goodbye before we go to our classes!! but he gets when i tlak to other boys but than again he talks to other girls! he said that he would date me again but he doesnt want his mom to get mad!! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! i would die for this boy!! i beat a bitches *** over him!! and i cant stand not being with him!!
2006-10-24 08:25:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he doesn't want his mom to get mad, then there is just nothing that you can do. Just be strong and just be friends. and maybe tone it down a bit, let his mother get to know you as his friend first. and not as his girlfriend. get interested in his mother, let her know that you two are just friends and that you really want her to get to know the real you.
2006-10-24 08:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you? How old is he? Sounds like both of you are way too young to even be that serious about each other. If his mom has to dictate who he can and cannot talk to, then let him hang out with his mom instead. I am sure that there are plenty of other guys around for you to get to know as friends first before you go making decisions like wanting to beat girls up over a guy whose mom tells him who he can and can't date. You are too smart a person to let him come and go as he pleases. Move on and realize that there are smarter, cuter guys out there.
2006-10-24 15:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sherbert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from guys where mama rules the roost. I had the same kind of situation, would up marrying the guy and also got the world's worst mother-in-law. If he loves you as much as you think, he would have a talk with mom about controlling his own life.
2006-10-24 15:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Co-dependent much? He's stringing you along, and you're so desperate, clingy, and in need of an outside qualifier for a sense of identity that you're allowing it to happen. Whatever happens to you two is going to play out like a shitty daytime soap, at best. You really need a good dose of reality, a therapist, and some form of tranquilizer.
2006-10-24 15:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he wants you,no one and nothing can spoil this!He is jealous when you talk to other boys but he can talk to other girls?Just don't let him to do anything he wants with you!If you love each other be together!Never let anyone get between you two!Now if he lets his mom do this and listens to her about that issue,he is wrong.Because if he really loves you he could defend your love and what you have together!I'm sure you can't stand this situation,not being together so do something about it,say something!If you want to be with him!
2006-10-24 15:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by star to fall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is you boyfriend Greek? :D :D :D
So typical behavior of a guy without balls. He will probably live with his mother until he gets married and expects his wife to be more of a mom than a partner to him. I see this type of men here in Greece everyday. Get away now and find a guy who is really responsible.
Loving your mother is something different than letting her control your life.
You will never be happy with a man like this.
2006-10-24 15:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by netslaveone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and let him settle his mother down. Sounds like hes got some other issues to werk out also. I'd leave it alone for awhile and go fishing for somebody else...
2006-10-24 15:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously very young....look, go out and have fun and stop worrying about a relationship that too much to handle... ...this guy is doing the right thing by listening to his mother and maybe you should take time out and gather yourself... ...you seem a little crazy.... ...guys dont want crazy bossy girls....think about it.
2006-10-24 15:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Carmen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why doesnt his mom want him to date you? If you both want to be together then go for it. Keep it under wraps for as long as you can.
2006-10-24 15:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all I recently divorced a man that even at age 35 still didn't have the balls to stand up for himself and it was his father that was the control freak GF please don't be a me and be with someone that cannot stand up for themselves for and dumps you because of their mother it sounds like you are a good person you need to be with someone that will not dump you or treat you like crap due to their mom telling them to dump you please move on and let the the B***** have his sorry butt you deserve better !!
2006-10-24 15:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋