i love a woman, she is 25 and has a kid, i think he is the cutest little kid in the world and she is perfect in my eyes, but im only 17 what do you think i should do?
2006-10-24 08:17:47 · 18 answers · asked by nik 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mabey i should restate what i wanted to konw, she is 25 and im 17 i know being phisicly inatment is ilegal, thats not why i love her, i love her because she makes me want to be a better person, she makes me feel complete, what i was wondering is do you think it could work out?
2006-10-24 08:28:13 · update #1
sex is not what we are interested in,
meh this is pointless, well anywho yall have a nice life k?
2006-10-24 08:30:56 · update #2
Nothing till you turn 18 or she could possibly be arrested.
2006-10-24 08:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by blueberry_coconut_1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i was with you until you said you were seven teen. man that's different. i mean are you absolutly positive that she is the one you see yourself with for the rest of your life. it's not the age gap that makes it a problem it's the fact that there is a possibility that you don't really know what you want out of life just yet and she does and that inspires you enough to make you think that she could be the one. maybe it's that she is older and has a little more life experience, including a child, and that interests you because you believe you are ready to be an adult. whatever the case is, i think it's ok to have a relationship with that woman because that age gap isn't really a gap at all. it's just. are you sure you know what you want out of life just yet. you're young, you never really know what might be in store for you down the road. are you willing to settle down for just that one person, who has already been through so much and knows so much more than you do? Can you handle that?
if you believe in your heart of hearts that you can, that that's what you want and are willing to risk, than by all means, i wish you the best of luck in your life. don't let anyone else make decisions that only you should have to make.
hope this helps
good luck
2006-10-24 19:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop involving yourself with this woman. 25 and 17 is a huge age gap. Believe me, when you are 25, you will be a whole different person than you are now. If this woman actually returns your feelings, I think she has some deep-rooted issues. You are a teenager and she is mid-twenties adult with a child. The relationship is illegal. I think you need to focus on other things (such as college, working, finding your own place). Embrace your teens, don't grow up so fast.
2006-10-24 15:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only 17, not even a legal adult. Don't persue a relationship with this woman, you're probably not emotionally ready for it. She'll probably want someone to marry and be a father to her kid, and there's no way you can do that- at least not yet. If you get mixed up with her you'll risk having her kid taken away from her because it would be illegal. You don't want to ruin the child's life that way, do you?
Maybe its just a teenage infatation you have for her. My advice is leave it alone or you'll just find yourself in a mess.
2006-10-24 15:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by piratewench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 17 do you really want to be stuck with kid, because your just a kid yourself. 8 years difference maybe you should slow down and date other people. After so many years if you feel the same go for it.
2006-10-24 15:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then probably not. However, if you still feel the same way after say...........5-10 years then yeah, you may be inl ove. Just don't get it confused with infatuation.
Personally, I think it is bad idea/situation. But you are not asking for our opnions on the situation, only what love is or isn't.
2006-10-24 15:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does she feel about you? If the feeling is mutual then go for it. However, because you are 17 she may back off until 18
2006-10-24 15:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask....you are not in love.
17...you're young and have a long life ahead of you. There are and will be plenty of girls you will meet. You will mature with each relationship. I would say you are too young.
2006-10-24 15:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by betafish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no! That is not right on her part. She is a woman and you are a child. Does she expect you to be the baby's father? You are too young to be involved with someone that old and with a child.
2006-10-24 15:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by jack512 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait a year, you're on two different sides of the legal barrier.
2006-10-24 15:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋