I have had no problems in the past with other races, however when it comes to black women they just don't want to talk to me. I am very confident in my looks and the way I approach women. However can not seem to have any luck with black women! Whats wrong!!!
2006-10-24 08:15:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should not think so negative on "dating a black women" if you think negative you will get it..
that are tooo many fine azz black women in the world for them all to not like you.. keep trying , that one special chocolate cream will see you for you and the sparks will happen.
ps when you do meet her, please dont bring up that you think you are "anti attracting black women" that might turn her off..
~Bringing black back
2006-10-24 08:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Crys 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? I can't imagine this is happening. But just be nice and normal, no nosy questions right up front. Men are usually rude to Black women so they don't trust men, White or Black, right away. Many Black women get approached very sexually, so just be normal, once they find out you are not nasty and out for booty they will give you a date or a least be your friend. Good luck!
2006-10-24 15:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you approach them like you would approach a female of other race..... or maybe you're not looking at the right type of black females
2006-10-24 15:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What types of black girls do u seem to go for?
Sometimes your approach may be too repetitive if you know what I mean (they heard it all before)
Maybe the are Shallow and are not into your looks, personality
Maybe the one's that you are looking at are not the one's that you need to be concentrating on!!!!!
2006-10-24 15:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Breann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know? How do you approach them? As a black woman, I will say that no matter the race, its all in your approach.
2006-10-24 15:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by KS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe it the way you dress. Im a black female and i love the way boys dress. if i see a male and he has the fit all messed up and looks like a bum then thats a turn off and i wont talk to you. I first look at there shoes though they have to always look nice.
Plus you might be to into yourself or maybe your an oreo. black on the out side but white on the inside
2006-10-24 15:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it just depends! Most black women want stable, loving, confident men! Are you one? Not a player, dog, etc? lol Just try and if they are worth anything maybe they will give you a try. Good Luck!
2006-10-24 15:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by panda 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop the B.S. bottomline u are not applying yourself when it come's to approaching the sista's. if u are confident with a confident approach there's no way you would have ZERO success with sista's. it is possible that it may take more persistence at time's. but your lack of success is, i'm sure, definitely rooted in your lack of true interest in succeeding with black women.
2006-10-24 15:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Damn I know where you comming from as I am a white man and never seemed to be able to date a white girl! Go figure. Now I take to Asians really well.
2006-10-24 15:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by tbear 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously because you dont want to. We meet who we want to. But seriously its almost 2007 that really doesnt matter anymore....date who fits and dont let people pressure you about the race.
2006-10-24 15:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by shanstew 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋